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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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R.I.P Lee,Logan,Austin A.L.L. - June 12th 2009, 09:06 PM

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Ha I never thought this could happen never...I mean old people dieing of old age maybe people I didn't know but wow never to me.....Ok so 3/5/09 I lost some friends in a car wrech they where raseing and went over a bridge into water I think they fell like 50 feet...they all died instantly....I didnt know all of them extreemly well but I knew them well enough to feel the pain of them not ever comming back....Lee was my brothers best friend and I miss him sooo much like it still hurts and for some reason I thought of them so much today....I remember when Lee just started wresteling ha so long ago and Logan had just beat cancer...Austin I really didn't know to much but I don't believe I will ever get over this...idk it eases with time but Idk do you ever get over something like that?....And the fact that Lee was here the day before he died doesn't make it easier I just keep seeing his face in my mind and dreams....It also doesn't make it any easier that if my brother wouldn't of broke his coller bone the day before they died he woulda been in the car with them and he woulda died to...my bro still blames himself for not being there....I cry I idk...I don't know what to do sometimes but I guess that will always be in my mind....
R.I.P Lee,Logan,Austin A.L.L I gues the best thing to do is never forget the leson they tought us or them and never forget the fun times but idk...it hurts
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R.I.P Lee, Logan, Austin 3/5/09

As tears fall from my eyes,I realized I didn't know them as much as I knew everyone else,Yet what I knew was they where apart of me in different ways,And as I watched them be put in the ground,Their spirits floating,Apart of me went with them...........You will forever be missed and loved...Never forgotten
   
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Re: R.I.P Lee,Logan,Austin A.L.L. - June 13th 2009, 12:24 AM

hey.
i know how you feel my dad was killed three years ago in an off roading accident. it was his first time back mudding since his surgery on his shoulder. he never came home. my mom was the one who told him to go and have fun, so she blamed herself for a while.
it does hurt, it still hurts me. it eases away with time, but it is still always there. you find other things to think about and get your mind off of the people and you forget about it for a while. remember the fun times and it isn't your fault, or your brothers. things happen and EVERYTHING happens for a reason, whether it feels like it or not, the statement is true. I have learned that the past three years.

I wish you the best of luck and if you ever want to talk, feel free to PM me.
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Re: R.I.P Lee,Logan,Austin A.L.L. - June 20th 2009, 06:43 PM

Hey there, Kayla.

I've looked at this thread a few times, trying to reply. I never have the right words and, honestly, this thread really hit home with me. Around your age a boy I knew, that we often called Lee, passed away in a car crash, and I lost quite a few other peers in high school to auto accidents. I'm sorry for the late reply, regardless.

Although you didn't know any of them extremely well, it seems like they have affected your life. Even if we simply see a person each day, it is hard to imagine life without them, you know? It's one thing when a person moves away, but when these constant presences in our lives are simply gone from our world it can be very hard to cope with, regardless of how close you were.

It will get easier in time. I'm not sure things like this are ever easy to cope with, but over time they become easier to handle. You will, one day, make peace with these losses.

Remember that you aren't alone. TeenHelp, myself included, is here for you. Don't be afraid to reach out to your friends and family as well. Try to take good care of yourself.



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