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Thumbs down miss him loads - July 16th 2009, 03:49 PM

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just writing to say that i miss manno loads,he was saddly taken from me in october the 18th by being stabbed by someone and then we had to turn his life support machine off,i feel bad for not being with him that afternoon i also feel bad for having a boyfriend when hes dead and can't do nothing
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Re: miss him loads - July 16th 2009, 04:34 PM

Hey. You shouldn't feel bad for having a boyfriend - he'd want you to be happy not sad, just remember the good memories you have with him. Im sure there are many. Don't feel bad.
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Smile Re: miss him loads - July 16th 2009, 06:17 PM

Thats a rough thing to have gone through, I'm sorry to hear that.
You should not feel bad for not being there, its not going to change if you wish that you had been there. Time won't reverse and it won't change.
Sorry if that seems harsh. He would want you to be happy wouldnt he?
So be happy because he would want that for you, he wouldnt want you to be sad.
Like Ash said you have to remember the good times. And be happy.
He's watching you from heaven and if your sad he'll be sad because he wants you to be happy. It will be hard but it will get easier over time.
Time heals all wounds. It gets easier over time.

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Re: miss him loads - July 16th 2009, 06:40 PM

yes but its hard and i just want to cry when i hear about someone being stabbed because theres too much knife crime they never use to be
   
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Re: miss him loads - July 16th 2009, 06:51 PM

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that hasta be rly hard...i know what it feels like losing someone rly close...
but you shouldnt feel bad about haveing a boiifriend...ppl move on ...but that doesnt mean ull forget about him...you said your self you love him:] and you alwayz will...and its also not your fault you werent there when they turned his l.s off....in mah opinon its kinda better you wernt there...b/c it wood probably been ten million times harder....just...dont feel bad...he wood want you to be happy im sure:]. just keep him in your heart=DDD and im rly sorry for the loss




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Re: miss him loads - July 17th 2009, 09:56 AM

yes but its hard being happy when someone you love got killed,i went to visit the park where his ashs are spread last night sat crying and some police officer tht patrols there came up to me while i was there.i had to explain to him why i was there,since there cracking down on underage drinkers in my area.so he stayed nearby me and took me home when i was ready to go home since he didn't want to leave me in the state i was in.

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