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miss both of them - August 25th 2009, 01:38 PM

i badly miss my twin sis that died 3 days after birth,i also miss my dead boyfriend.can i ask is there anyone out there that knows a place i can meet other people that have lost there twin so young please help me

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Re: miss both of them - August 25th 2009, 02:08 PM

I'm sorry to hear that you lost both your twin and your boyfriend. Is there anywhere in your town like a youth club, maybe even a church where you could ask if there is any groups or something similar where people meet up to help each other deal with these situations? And/or you could try and search around on Google. I don't know what you could search but I'm sure there has to be some sort of site out there, there could even be some people on here that have experienced the same thing who you could talk to x
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Re: miss both of them - August 25th 2009, 09:03 PM

Hi Natalie,

Losing a loved one, especially a sibling/twin. I'm really sorry that you have had to go through this, and can't imagine what you must be feeling right now.

What I can suggest to you is consider going to see a therapist about it. They might be able to help, and maybe they could recommend going to group meeting where you can meet other people that have gone through what you are going through.

For the issue with your boyfriend, that must be really hard, because you obviously love him. You may need a lot of time and/or support to help and/or understand what has happened.

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Re: miss both of them - August 25th 2009, 10:35 PM

sweet heart i am so sorry about your losses. its hard and i know it, i've lost people close to me too. and just know that you are NEVER alone on ANYTHING. somewhere in the world, there is someone out there who has gone through the exact same thing. you're never alone. your family misses your twin and your boyfriends family misses him. talk to your family and talk to your boyfreinds family because they will understand. you can laugh at the good times but dont be afraid to cry. and talk to them, espically your twin. they are BOTH listening to you and watching over you. they would want you to be happy, but it is very hard and i know it. if you need anyone to talk to, please message me! i'd love to help. good luck =]
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