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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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Thumbs up I Can't stop Thinkin About Him - October 13th 2009, 08:11 PM

My friend Triad died two years ago and im still finding it difficult to get over. i know fully well that i should, but there are so many questions un answered.
I will NEVER get to speak to him again, i still cant believ it because i know it sound weird but he really was Sooo ALIVE (obviously), but like lively and funny and one of the best people i have met.

I luv u Triad and miss you like mad. i Hope u see this. i guess this shouldve been a blog but o well.
Thnx for listening.


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Re: I Cant't stop Thinkin About Him - October 13th 2009, 11:03 PM

Grief is hard. I lost my dad 3 years ago. Have you talked to anyone about it? That always helped me.


Try to be strong because there are people who care about you. You are worth something to someone on this earth. God loves you, more than words can tell. Don't give up your life, you are better than that. Stay strong through the pain and the dark, because there is a light at the end of the tunnel. <3
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Re: I Cant't stop Thinkin About Him - October 14th 2009, 07:29 PM

Hey,

I am really sorry to hear about this. Losing someone close is always so difficult to come to terms with. 2 years really isn't that long ago so you shouldn't just expect yourself to get over it. It is in time meant to get easier. I think you will always miss him but in time maybe it won't hurt as much and you will be able to look back and think about the positive memories you spent with your friend. Have you ever talked to anyone about it? If not then I really think you should.

Another thing you could do is write a letter to your best friend saying how you feel. It might just help to get some of your feelings out.

I am always here if you want to chat. Stay strong.
   
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Re: I Cant't stop Thinkin About Him - October 14th 2009, 09:45 PM

yeah.thank u very much for the support.
i will try it
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Re: I Cant't stop Thinkin About Him - October 17th 2009, 07:50 PM

I think every death can affect you in a completely different way, and for someone so close you may never fully get over their death. I find that writing notes helps me grieve, then I feel they can still be in my life when I want them to be. My friend died a month ago and I'm struggling, but I find speaking to other people that understand how I feel is so important.



Holly Grogan, my friend, died 16.09.2009.
Goodbye, Holly.
May your smile light up the face of heaven.

   
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