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Where do you cry? - October 19th 2009, 08:08 AM

I'm not sure if this is the right spot for the thread, feel free to move.

I was just wondering where everyone feels comofortable crying. Whether it's in public, not in public. A specific room or place? Inside or outside?

For me it's becoming the shower. I've noticed even if I ball my eyes out in the shower, when I come out, no one can tell. Which I like because I hate when people see me cry. Especially family. If not, then it's my room. Which I'm sure will be common for alot of people.



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Re: Where do you cry? - October 19th 2009, 02:42 PM

I feel most comfortable crying in my bedroom at home. Most probably because I'm alone there and can isolate myself from everything.
   
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Re: Where do you cry? - October 19th 2009, 04:40 PM

When I am in my room on my own normally
   
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Re: Where do you cry? - October 19th 2009, 07:05 PM

Backyard treehouse. I always go there, when I feel like cryin or need a time out from the world.


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Re: Where do you cry? - October 19th 2009, 08:02 PM

My room. I can cry anywhere though.
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Re: Where do you cry? - October 19th 2009, 10:11 PM

Only my bedroom and bathroom (mostly in the shower or bath)


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Re: Where do you cry? - October 19th 2009, 10:50 PM

I feel most comfortable in my bedroom/bathroom. I'd just rather not have people staring at me. xD
   
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Re: Where do you cry? - October 19th 2009, 11:50 PM

Most comfortable in my bedroom, but depending on circumstances sometimes I don't have a choice as to where I am. =P



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Re: Where do you cry? - October 19th 2009, 11:55 PM

In my bedroom when nobodys home or in the shower. I cant stand to have people see my cry.


   
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Re: Where do you cry? - October 20th 2009, 12:17 AM

Definately my bedroom or anywhere as long as I'm alone and not in public.
It's embarassing for someone to see me crying.


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Re: Where do you cry? - October 20th 2009, 02:19 AM

My bedroom if my mom is home, but if I'm alone I can do it throughout the house. I hate letting people see me cry though, I don't know why.
   
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Re: Where do you cry? - October 20th 2009, 02:26 AM

On the floor in my room. But I'm an easy crier, so I feel comfortable anywhere if I'm sad...though I hate being around other people.


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Re: Where do you cry? - October 21st 2009, 06:49 PM

I feel that I'm allowed to cry in the school chapel - no-one judges me, no-one can come and hassle me, and I can spend as long as I like in there. I don't like crying in public - especially at school - you feel like everyone's watching you. I 'like' crying in my bedroom - I'm at the top of the house and no-one comes up. And I can take my anger out in my many pillows.



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Re: Where do you cry? - October 21st 2009, 07:09 PM

The shower is a big one, but if it's raining sometimes I'll lay outside on the grass and cry there too. I feel like I can calm down faster when I'm outside in the fresh air...I live in the country though so no one ever sees me.


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Re: Where do you cry? - October 21st 2009, 07:18 PM

My bedroom. Or if no one is in then anywhere in the house.


   
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Re: Where do you cry? - October 21st 2009, 09:04 PM

In my bedroom when there's loud music on, or in the arms of someone who cares about me.
   
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Re: Where do you cry? - October 21st 2009, 09:37 PM

When I am in bed at night and my sister is fast asleep, I hate it when people see or even know I cry. I came real, real close to crying in front of my school counselor and normal counselor, but I never did. I'm afraid somebody is going to make fun of me or hurt me for showing emotion.


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Re: Where do you cry? - October 21st 2009, 09:57 PM

My bedroom or bathroom. I often cry in front of my boyfriend too... he always knows what to say and I feel comfortable around him.


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Re: Where do you cry? - October 21st 2009, 11:55 PM

I do belive this is the first post from any guy, but I don't care.

I often cry in my room, or on ANY bed, it really doesn't matter who's, I could walk into a strangers house and let everything go on their bed. I am very emotional, and I can cry almost anywhere, I've cried infront of counsulors(SP) and everything. It usually doesn't matter, if I feel the need to, I will, but I only feel "right" crying at home in my room, or in the shower.











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Re: Where do you cry? - October 22nd 2009, 04:17 PM

My bedroom, my car, and the shower.


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Re: Where do you cry? - October 23rd 2009, 04:57 PM

I usully cry to myself in my room when there is on one around because mostly i want to be by myself
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Re: Where do you cry? - October 24th 2009, 01:10 AM

Shower or bedroom.
   
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Re: Where do you cry? - October 24th 2009, 01:51 AM

Sounds pretty basic for everyone, thanks for all the replies. (:



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Re: Where do you cry? - November 4th 2009, 07:57 AM

the only place i ever cry, is in the arena, when I fall off a horse. even then, its not much, and i dont do it everytime i fall. I hate crying at any other time, in any other place.
   
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Re: Where do you cry? - November 4th 2009, 05:07 PM

wherever i am when something happens that makes me cry.. doesn't really matter. i'm not ashamed of crying..


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Re: Where do you cry? - November 4th 2009, 05:13 PM

I n my bedroom, but I can cry absolutely anywhere =)


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Re: Where do you cry? - November 5th 2009, 10:05 PM

in a corner, or under my sleeping bag- not duvet though
   
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Re: Where do you cry? - November 6th 2009, 03:03 AM

I used to cry on the old leather couch in the den with my dog's head in my lap... but ever since she died, only alone in my room. the ironic part is that now most of the time its about her.


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Re: Where do you cry? - November 6th 2009, 04:43 AM

mostly my bedroom but I know if im really upset ill cry anywhere ive started crying in the middle of math class before actually ive started crying in school a lot of times. If im not with my family i don't bother trying to find someplace away from everyone to cry i just start crying where ever i happen to be.


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Re: Where do you cry? - November 6th 2009, 08:18 AM

I cry outside in a field, always the same field, or I cry on the phone to the only girl who knows how to calm me down.
   
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Re: Where do you cry? - November 6th 2009, 08:41 AM

I cry in my bedroom most of the time. The other times it's would probably because the situation causes me to cry. Otherwise, I prefer to cry alone, where no one can see me...


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Re: Where do you cry? - November 6th 2009, 05:07 PM

On the RARE occassion that I do let myself go its either my room or this secluded place in my town


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Re: Where do you cry? - November 6th 2009, 07:28 PM

The beach, I spend hours down there just watching the waves and stuff, I can cry there and it feels okay.

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Re: Where do you cry? - November 6th 2009, 07:52 PM

when i cry, i tend to cry on my bathroom floor, or i cry when i'm in the shower.
they both work a lot.
also, i find myself crying a lot at the computer more and more often.



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Re: Where do you cry? - November 7th 2009, 06:09 AM

I cry in loads of places, because I kind of break down at random times. More than anything, I cry at the computer or in my bed.



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Re: Where do you cry? - November 7th 2009, 04:16 PM

I sometimes can't control my tears, so I quite often end up crying in public, but I prefer to cry with just one other person there, I don't like to be alone though




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Re: Where do you cry? - November 7th 2009, 07:56 PM

I cry in my bathroom, on my bed and if I am alone anywhere in my house. But usually once I am crying I hate to be inside so I go on walks to the park near my house where I either sit on the swings or lay in the middle of the field. I usually only cry at night so the parks tend to be empty. I wouldn't like a stranger to see me but I would rather a stranger than anybody in my family.


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Re: Where do you cry? - November 8th 2009, 03:10 AM

Usually my bedroom, and mostly only at night or in the morning when I won't have family knocking on my door. It's been YEARS since anyone has seen me cry, other than when my friend died. I went for a walk, cried my eyes out with sunglasses on and ended up sobbing on a picnic table at the park. At that point I didn't really care who saw. I was actually hoping my friend would come. Other than that though, my room. Or the bathroom



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