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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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Red face Tough Couple of Months - January 30th 2010, 09:07 PM

The past six months have been the hardest I've ever had to go through.

I was a pretty average weekend in mid-July, until my parents told me that a friend of mine had been murdered that morning. He was at a friend's birthday party when there had been an incident involving some kids that got out of hand. Long story short, they didn't like it when my friend told them to leave. For the next few days I was in complete denial because my friend had been like an older brother to me. I started feeling like my world had ended because I had never felt anything like that much pain.

I probably would done much better if I had someone to talk to, but I didn't. I had distanced myself from everyone, even my family never speaking about it, because it could barely speak when someone was there.

A month later, when I started to slowly recover, my grandfather suffered a heart attack while visiting his home town in Portugal. At that point I felt like crap. I couldn't stand being in the funeral home so I spent most of my time in on the second floor lobby, watching the Jays Game.

Again, I felt like I had no one around me. My younger sister recently had a tumor removed from her leg and just a few days ago, we had to euthanize my dog who had been suffering for a long while.

I seriously feel that I can't catch a break, I just want things to go up from here and it doesn't seem that they are. I can feel a large barrier being built and I just can't stop it.

I defiantly needed to let that out...

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Re: Tough Couple of Months - January 30th 2010, 09:35 PM

I Bet you feel a little better now you have vented?

It's good to get things out.

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