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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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Unhappy The pain hasn't changed since day 1.. - May 4th 2010, 12:29 AM

It has been exactly three months since my friend, who was more like a mom to me, passed away. I don't feel like time has been healing me at all. I can't stop thinking about all of the things we had planned for this summer. She was everything to me and she was taken away so fast. It was like I never even got the chance to try and help her. I would do anything to see her one last time and feel the warmth of her hug wash over my whole body. But she's gone now and no one can ever change that.

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Re: The pain hasn't changed since day 1.. - May 4th 2010, 12:35 AM

Hi,

I am sorry to hear about your loss, it must be hard for you at the moment, I remember being there myself.

3 months isn't that long really, it is perfectly normal to still be a bit shocked and still grieving- but it does get easier over time, even if you don't feel that it will at the moment.

I believe that my mum and nana are watching over me- I even talk to them sometimes, tell them about my day, tell them I love them and miss them- it helps me.
Also writing your feelings down might help too? Just write down everything you're feeling to get your emotions out might help you come to terms with it?

Have you tried talking to someone in real life about how you're feeling?

I hope things get easier for you soon, just give it some more time. You might feel now that you will never be able to move on with your life but, even though you'll always love and miss your friend, you will eventually be able to move on.

PM me any time if you want to talk about things


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