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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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Its been kinda scary, wheres the light?! - May 9th 2010, 02:39 PM

Well recently I became very close to an older cousin of mine, she was sweet, caring, and loving. She helped me with depression, loneliness etc. by giving me a flashdrive filled with relaxing techniques and exercises to listen too. But fate can be cruel, She died in her sleep the next day! It was a tremendous shock to me. I thought everyone and everything was being taken from me.
And on that same day my father had crossed the line and attacked and strangled me in front of my 3-year-old nephew, his mother, being the hateful, spiteful person that she is; said I couldn't see the boy for the rest of my life.
Its been proven too. In some way, he had come to my house, and rushed to give me a hug, then she screamed "Don't go near him! leave him there" I'm like thinking, gosh this is childish lol.

Anyway its been tough, maybe I could have support I need it
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Re: Its been kinda scary, wheres the light?! - May 10th 2010, 05:49 AM

Oh my goodness. That must be so hard..... I am glad you are looking for help instead of just letting depression overtake you. i dont know what i would even do in that situation. i know when my mom died that people kept offering to talk to me, but i didnt want to talk to them. however, i am here if you ever want to talk to me. i dont know how else to help.



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Re: Its been kinda scary, wheres the light?! - May 11th 2010, 06:23 PM

Hey Kyle,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost a good friend not so long ago and it was a shock to me when I found out since she was only young. When something like this happens it can feel like life is so unfair and it can be at times. I suppose you just have to try to hang onto the positive memories you spent with your cousin even though I understand that is so difficult at the moment. But try and remember what she said to you when you were depressed and how she helped you to get through it.

I can't take away all your pain but I am always happy to listen if you ever want to chat. Stay strong.
   
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Re: Its been kinda scary, wheres the light?! - May 11th 2010, 09:13 PM

Kyle,

Welcome to the site. You have my condolences, it is definitely tragic indeed.

I suggest that you file a police report about what your father did to you, that is assault and he had no right to do that.
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