Triggering (Abuse): my beautiful soon to be

miss_my_life · **my beautiful soon to be -** July 19th 2010, 07:29 AM

so a few days ago, my girlfriend passed away. she died from a seizure which was brought on by sexual, physical and emotional abuse from her father. at times, she would call me crying, wishing she was anywhere but home, but refused to rat on her dad because she still loved him. i understood that she loved him and that she didn't want to get him into trouble but she dealt with it for 13 years. she was 3 when all of this started. on her 5th birthday, he dad threw her from a 2-story window because she didn't want to do something because it was her birthday. she spent over a month in the hospital where her dad acted like the perfect father when really it was all an act. when she tried to tell on him, nobody believed her. she was the grand-daughter of the chief of police and the niece of 7 cops and 4 lawyers. none of them believed her because they all listened to her dad. this went on till like 10 months ago because i got her pregnant with our son and he didnt want to harm his grandson. so the hitting and raping and shit stopped for 9 months while she was pregnant with my son. and once she had him 3 weeks ago, they started again, accept they were more frequent and more dangerous actions to hurt her. about 2 weeks ago, i went to my girlfriends house, after being forced by her to take our son and leave, and i found her hanging by her wrists in her dads closet stripped naked and covered in bruises and blood and burns. he had hung her there while he repeatedly hit her and whipped her and raped her. i was so scared to move her because of how black and blue she was. i called the police and an ambulance and her uncle was the cop that responded. her uncle mike was in shock wen he saw his niece hanging there practically dead. she was in a coma for 3 days but eventually woke up. she refused to talk or say anything about or against her father. the only think she wanted when she woke up was her son. her (not even a week old) baby boy. she attempted to commit suicide twice while in the hospital for a week and a half but then didn't care anymore and just held her son till she fell asleep.she enjoyed her sons company and he loved being with her. he loved his mommy more then his daddy. last Wednesday, she fell asleep and never woke up. apparently she had a seizure while she was sleeping that caused her brain to stop working and her body to stop responding. she had passed away holding in her arms then one that mattered most to her... her baby boy. i miss my girlfriend so much. she was amazing in every way. she was the best mother and the most amazingly incredible girlfriend a guy could ever ask for. she made me so happy and i will never forget her. she was my whole world. her and my son were my 2 favorite people in the entire world and always will be.

Lightning · **Re: my beautiful soon to be -** July 19th 2010, 01:39 PM

Wow I am sorry to hear about this. I can see how she was so close to you. I also find it a bunch of BS that no one believed her about her dad. I have had issues with that as well whenever I was really young and had babysitters who would yell, holler, scream, etc at me. I'd tell on them but they were 'good friends' of my parents so my parents never believed me.

I really wish you the best of luck and do hope they do something about her father someday or anytime soon. So they did the autopsy?
I am sure they could find out that someone hit her to death and they really should get officials involved who are NOT related to her who are police, lawyers, etc

ChelseaSmile · **Re: my beautiful soon to be -** July 19th 2010, 07:29 PM

I'm so sorry you had to go through this, and especially that your girlfriend had to go through that her whole life.
Now, I suppose you could just go through your life caring for your son.
He needs you the most right now.
-Bryri

Imagine · **Re: my beautiful soon to be -** July 19th 2010, 08:59 PM

I'm so sorry for you loss. He does need you most right now. Stay strong and I'm always here if you need someone to chat with. I'm a PM away. <3

miss_my_life · **Re: my beautiful soon to be -** July 22nd 2010, 02:29 AM

thankx guys.

MichWolverineFreak · **Re: my beautiful soon to be -** July 22nd 2010, 04:33 AM

Oh my God, that is so sad... look man, you have got to try your ass off to imprison her father. I cant believe that, hes so evil. Send his ass to jail, no matter how hard it is.

NeverFeltThisWay1991 · **Re: my beautiful soon to be -** July 22nd 2010, 07:16 AM

I am really sorry for your loss. Stay strong, the little one needs you the most right now... but I agree with everyone... try as hard as you can to imprison her father.

Jacksonian · **Re: my beautiful soon to be -** July 24th 2010, 10:07 PM

Friend, my apologies to you.

.Brittany. · **Re: my beautiful soon to be -** July 29th 2010, 01:41 PM

I teared up while reading this. You are so strong to have to go through this, I'm sorry this happened, I'm only a PM away if you want to talk.

singinggirl · **Re: my beautiful soon to be -** July 29th 2010, 07:29 PM

im so sry

feeeliciamxox · **Re: my beautiful soon to be -** July 29th 2010, 08:31 PM

I am so very sorry to hear that... you have so much courage and strength. I myself could not have that. DEFINITELY get him in jail, for her, and for your son.

You will hopefully see her again someday.

Stay strong, and don't hesitate to PM me if you need to.

Justin Bieber · **Re: my beautiful soon to be -** July 29th 2010, 09:02 PM

That.... that is just awful. On so many levels.... I am SO sorry you had to go through all this for so long. I can only imagine how much you cared and worried about her. I hope she is in peace wherever she is now <3 I also hope you and your son have a wonderful life together <3

If you ever need to vent or talk to someone, I'm all ears.

miss_my_life · **Re: my beautiful soon to be -** July 31st 2010, 06:07 AM

thanks and read "for i wish to join them"

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ChelseaSmile Offline Dare To Be Different Average Joe *** Name: Chelsea Gender: Female Location: Somewhere I don't want to be Posts: 123 Join Date: June 30th 2010	Re: my beautiful soon to be - July 19th 2010, 07:29 PM I'm so sorry you had to go through this, and especially that your girlfriend had to go through that her whole life. Now, I suppose you could just go through your life caring for your son. He needs you the most right now. -Bryri

Imagine Offline Hopeless Love Jeez, get a life! *********** Age: 20 Gender: Female Location: California Posts: 5,834 Join Date: November 7th 2009	Re: my beautiful soon to be - July 19th 2010, 08:59 PM I'm so sorry for you loss. He does need you most right now. Stay strong and I'm always here if you need someone to chat with. I'm a PM away. <3

miss_my_life Offline Banned Welcome me, I'm new! * Name: tommy Gender: Male Location: pennsylvania Posts: 13 Join Date: July 4th 2010	Re: my beautiful soon to be - July 22nd 2010, 02:29 AM thankx guys.

NeverFeltThisWay1991 Offline Got It All Now Not a n00b ** Name: Amanda Age: 20 Gender: Female Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 52 Join Date: July 9th 2009	Re: my beautiful soon to be - July 22nd 2010, 07:16 AM I am really sorry for your loss. Stay strong, the little one needs you the most right now... but I agree with everyone... try as hard as you can to imprison her father.

Jacksonian Offline Member I've been here a while ******** Name: Jackson Gender: Male Location: 3rd Rock from the Sun Posts: 1,522 Join Date: November 6th 2009	Re: my beautiful soon to be - July 24th 2010, 10:07 PM Friend, my apologies to you. I came here to help out, so if you wanna talk or just need someone to bounce ideas or issues off of or something else then send me a message and I will reply as soon as I can.

.Brittany. Offline AKA Reakless Emotion Jeez, get a life! *********** Name: Brittany Age: 22 Gender: Female Location: Canada Posts: 5,143 Join Date: January 12th 2009	Re: my beautiful soon to be - July 29th 2010, 01:41 PM I teared up while reading this. You are so strong to have to go through this, I'm sorry this happened, I'm only a PM away if you want to talk. And I will take you in my arms, and hold you right where you belong. Til the day my life is through, this I promise you.121109

singinggirl Offline Member Welcome me, I'm new! * Name: veronica :) Gender: Female Posts: 9 Join Date: July 14th 2010	Re: my beautiful soon to be - July 29th 2010, 07:29 PM im so sry

Justin Bieber Offline =] Outside, huh? ********** Name: Ask Away! Age: 20 Gender: Female Location: Nowhere to be found Posts: 4,648 Join Date: January 5th 2009	Re: my beautiful soon to be - July 29th 2010, 09:02 PM That.... that is just awful. On so many levels.... I am SO sorry you had to go through all this for so long. I can only imagine how much you cared and worried about her. I hope she is in peace wherever she is now <3 I also hope you and your son have a wonderful life together <3 If you ever need to vent or talk to someone, I'm all ears.

miss_my_life Offline Banned Welcome me, I'm new! * Name: tommy Gender: Male Location: pennsylvania Posts: 13 Join Date: July 4th 2010	Re: my beautiful soon to be - July 31st 2010, 06:07 AM thanks and read "for i wish to join them"

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