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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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My cousin, - November 8th 2010, 01:11 AM

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Back in early August, my cousin, who was 32 years old passed away. He was my first cousin and well we didn't talk much but we thought the world of each other. A few days before he died, I attempted suicide. All I can do now is blame myself. Like he died instead of me, and he really didn't deserve it. I can't even think about it without crying and I can't stop blaming myself for this. I feel like it was supposed to be me, but he took my place. It hurts, so much..


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Re: My cousin, - November 8th 2010, 08:24 AM

Hey, I'm so sorry for your loss,
Please don't blame yourself, It wasn't your fault, and he didn't die instead of you, I'm not so good at this, but everything happens for a reason, its just going to hurt more to think this. We're all here for a purpose. But its not your fault. Not at all.. I'm not so good at advice like i said, but im here if you need someone to talk too.


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