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Never got a chance to say goodbye -
February 4th 2011, 09:47 PM
Last saw her a week ago today
I talked to her We got along I liked her She was cool to talk to and all Now she's gone How could this be? It doesn't seem real It hasn't hit me yet That she's really gone We weren't best friends, but we were friends We didn't hang out outside of school But we talked when we had class together And smiled and said hi in the halls Just a few months Before graduation Just a few months Before we walk across the stage And she will never be able to do that It's too soon She was so young It hurts To know how many people she left Her family Her boyfriend Close friends Teachers Classmates And I'm one of them It doesn't seem real I mean, I just saw her a week ago And now she's gone She's passed away And so many people Never got a chance to say good bye RIP Katie February 3, 2011 NO H8 What a terrible mess I'm in... |
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Re: Never got a chance to say goodbye -
February 4th 2011, 10:10 PM
Sorry about your friend.
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Re: Never got a chance to say goodbye -
February 7th 2011, 07:26 PM
I'm sorry you had to lose someone close to you. I know just how hard it is to lose a classmate senior year. It feels like everyone has so much ahead of them and then it's just over in the blink of an eye.
You'll get through this, okay? I'm here if you ever want to talk. <3 Emily "Sometimes it's a struggle to be not who you want to be, not who you used to be, not who you're going to be, but just being right where you are, who you are" ![]() |
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Re: Never got a chance to say goodbye -
February 7th 2011, 09:13 PM
I am really sorry about your friend. I know you weren't as close to this person, but that doesn't change the feelings you are having. The feelings that you are having are normal. With time, things will get easier. For now, try to do things that make you happy. I know that the grieving process is going to take longer then a day.
The title of this thread says: Never got a chance to say goodbye. Obviously you can physically say bye to he. Write her a letter. That wil help you get the things out that you want to say.
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Re: Never got a chance to say goodbye -
February 8th 2011, 12:52 AM
I'm really sorry to hear about your friend. Often times we never suspect anything, and we never get to say goodbye. It can be tough to see but life goes on and time will heal your scars. Everything will be okay <3
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Re: Never got a chance to say goodbye -
February 10th 2011, 07:16 PM
I'm very apologetic to hear of your loss. Whether close as a relative, or distant as an aquaintance, death can affect people in many different ways and can affect a lot of people. It makes people aware that life is too short, and can easily be compromised. I hope you deal with this well, good luck in the future and keep your head high <3
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Re: Never got a chance to say goodbye -
February 11th 2011, 12:41 PM
I'm really sorry about your loss
I know how you feel I lost a good friend to a drug overdose He was only 13, younger than me, I loved him to death, it was a day before summer vacation was over. I promised I'd see him after summer vacation, but I never visited him. Never got to say good bye. Or have fun. I wish i did Last time I saw him was the last day of school. I'm really sorry, PM me if you need anything
"You looked at me one last time and said, I'm done holding on for nothing" </3
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Re: Never got a chance to say goodbye -
February 11th 2011, 01:39 PM
I'm really sorry this happened.
stay strong. x
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愛してる
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Re: Never got a chance to say goodbye -
February 12th 2011, 06:38 AM
Hey there!
I really am sorry about your friend. Also being a senior (by the looks of it, it seems you are too). It really does hurt to see someone come so close towards graduation but not make it. She must have been going through a lot of things throughout her life to give up. Espcically when she had a boyfriend to lean on. It really is sad that she didn't get help, I can imagine how me and the other staff members could have helped her back on her feet. This really does hurt, but try to think of this loss as motivation for you. Honor her name by achieving your goals and being successful in your life. Try to carry on what ever she left behind, maybe try to help comfort her family and see what can be done? Don't let this pull you down. Dedicate your life and future for her. |
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Stained glass masquerade
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Re: Never got a chance to say goodbye -
February 12th 2011, 12:11 PM
Thank you all for all of your support and kind words. It means a lot to me. I know that with time things will get easier. I've got tons of support here and at my school and church and work.
Rylan, I just want to clarify that she died because the flu attack her heart but she also had a preexisting heart condition no one knew about. It all came about very quickly and they couldn't save her in time. Thank you all again<3 NO H8 What a terrible mess I'm in... |
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Re: Never got a chance to say goodbye -
February 12th 2011, 08:07 PM
Hi Konton. I hope you are doing ok. I am glad you have such a good support system there with you. And know you will always have us here.
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愛してる
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Re: Never got a chance to say goodbye -
February 13th 2011, 04:08 AM
oh dear. I'm really sorry. From how you said, I thought you meant she gave up on life. I'm really sorry if I caused anything.
But like on my post, honor her name by achieving your goals!
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