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February 7th 2011, 04:28 PM
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A guy who went to my school until last year killed himself last Saturday. I feel like I should be sad about it, I didn't know him at all, but he was apparently a really nice guy. But I just feel pissed off. The amount of people I've seen crying about it in school today is ridiculous, I really don't feel any sympathy for him (something my friend and I kinda fell out about this afternoon). I mean, obviously I feel sorry for his friends and family but I can't help but feel contempt for him for doing something so selfish. I don't know, maybe he had some serious shit going on at home, but I just can't get myself into the mentality where you'd want to do something like that, not now I've seen how it's affected the school. We had a remembreance assembly for him this morning and I just couldn't really feel sad for him, just kinda annoyed that we had to pray for him even though my school isn't a chirch one. and now I feel really bad, not for him, for myself, because I shouldn't have such negative feelings towards someone who's just died. I just don't know how else I can feel.
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February 7th 2011, 05:35 PM
I understand why you feel this way; in some ways suicide it can be seen as selfish, people grieve in different ways and you have to remember there are a lot of people that are really upset. I suppose it is respectful to pray for him, even though you don't see why. If you don't really know someone, it is hard to feel upset.
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February 7th 2011, 06:15 PM
I guess it feels like it's only just sunk in...
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