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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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R.I.P. You were so young. - March 5th 2011, 03:51 AM

I family friend, the son, died yesterday evening in the hands of loving family. He was only sixteen years of age.

He was suffering from A brain tumor that appeared suddenly. In the biopsy he nearly died on the operating table twice due to bleeding. This was five days before Xmas.

They induced him into coma for two months. He missed the new years, and Christmas. His grandmother died but the parents did not tell him as not ruin his health.

He began recuperating.. he was able to squeeze hands and open his eyes, and he could hear you.

He had a relapse about a week ago, and yesterday evening he was brought back to his house where he died in peace. I visited him in the hospital just 24 hours before he passed away. He died on the day of his grandmothers funeral.

I am filled with many emotions such as guilt and sadness. I feel so bad for his family and wish them the best.
   
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Re: R.I.P. You were so young. - March 5th 2011, 12:29 PM

That's so sad, I'm sorry for the loss.
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Re: R.I.P. You were so young. - March 5th 2011, 12:42 PM

Sorry for your loss. It must be hard especially as he was so young but you shouldn't feel quilty its not your fault
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Re: R.I.P. You were so young. - March 5th 2011, 02:41 PM

hey, i'm really sorry to hear about your loss. its always hard to lose someone, especially so young. don't feel guilty, it was out of everyones control. hang in the ok?
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Re: R.I.P. You were so young. - March 9th 2011, 02:10 PM

aww lovey, its normal for you to feel mixed feeling of guilt ect ect :''3 but its not ur fault, remember that sweety, if u need anyone, everyone on TH is here ti talk to <3 x stay strong and take care lovely :''3


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Re: R.I.P. You were so young. - March 9th 2011, 04:35 PM

Hey Trina,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It is so sad when anyone passes away but especially when it is someone so young. I had a friend who died of cancer last year and she was only 21.. It was just devastating and heartbreaking to see someone so young dying knowing there was nothing you could do to help.

It is understandable that you are filled with so many emotions at the moment. The best thing for you to do is to express how you feel because holding it all inside will make you feel worse. I am not sure why you feel guilty but honestly you have nothing to be guilty for because it wasn't your fault. You can't be responsible for someone having cancer and I think you have enough to deal with without that guilt. You need to look after yourself and lean on those people who you are close to for that extra support through this.

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Re: R.I.P. You were so young. - March 9th 2011, 10:55 PM

I'm so sorry this happened.</3
But it sounds like it was his time, and now he isn't suffering.
Everything is all better for him now.<3


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