it's my fault he's dead

Ann2012 · **it's my fault he's dead -** March 6th 2011, 02:12 AM

I was 3 years ago he passed away and I still blame myself. I killed him, not directly but indirectly. It's a long story but basically he had a crush on me and because of that he lost all of his friends. He gave signs but I we didn't listhen and then he died. It was from diabetic shock but I'm pretty sure he didn't take his meds on purpose, he would do that. I hate it when my friends try saying it wasn't my fault but ill always feel like a murderer. I was 14 at the time. Its crazy how I can still go through life like I've never been the cause of someones death. I can't go on like that anymore, I'm going to express it to my friends.

Kate* · **Re: it's my fault he's dead -** March 6th 2011, 03:12 AM

I can see how you might feel like his death was your fault, but it wasn't. It wasn't your fault because it was diabetic shock. Even if he didn't take his medicine on purpose, he chose to do that, you didn't make him do that.

heartbrokenboy1990 · **Re: it's my fault he's dead -** March 6th 2011, 04:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Kate*

I can see how you might feel like his death was your fault, but it wasn't. It wasn't your fault because it was diabetic shock. Even if he didn't take his medicine on purpose, he chose to do that, you didn't make him do that.

I agree with this completely. It is absolutely not your fault there is nothing you could have done to change what happened. Just remember were here to help you in any way we possibly can and if you need us feel free to send a pm. I hope you take care.

Nicole! · **Re: it's my fault he's dead -** March 6th 2011, 08:50 PM

It wasn't your fault. You don't know that he decided to stop taking his meds, especially because of you. Why did he lose all of his friends because he liked you? It was probably because he felt alone from loss of friends rather then because you didn't feel the same way.

If he did commit suicide, it was his decision, not yours. Try not to feel guilty, okay?

Ann2012 · **Re: it's my fault he's dead -** March 6th 2011, 10:29 PM

He said things and lost them. It all originated from me though. There's a lot more to the story but i can't tell them all (I'm using my phone). I see the situation like if I had hired somome to do it.

theedge · **Re: it's my fault he's dead -** March 7th 2011, 02:45 AM

ive bin the direct cause of my best friends death last may i lost control of a motorbike at 85 mph and slid into a telegraph pole he was killed on impact and now after 10 months im back in perfect health people that dont know me would never guess that ive done wat ive done or bin through wat im going through i accept that ive killed some1 and ill never forget that and i cant belive that i got off as lightly as a did considering my best friends loss, everyday i walk around a small area where every1 knows every1 and every1 knows who i am and what i did, ppl that wer practically family to me that will never speak to me again which i understand as i killed there son, brother, boyfriend, but believe me i know that i definitely was the cause of my friend losing his life but ur situation is completely different no1 knows whats going through some1 elses head for all you know you may not have bin the cause at all, but dont torture yourself its a horrible place im there and its a dark road to go down

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Kate* Offline Live Help Operator I've been here a while ******** Name: Katie Age: 24 Gender: Female Location: Ohio Posts: 1,733 Join Date: January 6th 2009	Re: it's my fault he's dead - March 6th 2011, 03:12 AM I can see how you might feel like his death was your fault, but it wasn't. It wasn't your fault because it was diabetic shock. Even if he didn't take his medicine on purpose, he chose to do that, you didn't make him do that. Original join date: September 19, 2007 LHO since: March 31, 2008 Follow me on Twitter

Ann2012 Offline Member Not a n00b ** Age: 18 Gender: Female Location: Washington Posts: 88 Join Date: May 28th 2010	Re: it's my fault he's dead - March 6th 2011, 10:29 PM He said things and lost them. It all originated from me though. There's a lot more to the story but i can't tell them all (I'm using my phone). I see the situation like if I had hired somome to do it.

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