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Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

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Angry. - March 23rd 2011, 07:22 AM

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I'm so angry!
Again, I am not allowed to go to the funeral.
Again, i can't properly say good bye.
First, my mums friend who was like a second mother, died, I wasn't allowed to go because they wanted to go out after and said i couldnt go.
now, the man who ive known my whole life died, he doesnt want a funeral, just a little thing to say goodbye.. IM NOT ALLOWED TO GO.
Why? Because they don't want me there.. i have everyright to say goodbye to him.. but they just don't care.. they dont know how it makes me feel knowing im not allowed to go to say goodbye to loved ones whom ive lost.


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Re: Angry. - March 23rd 2011, 07:46 AM

I'm very sorry for your loss. I think I have talked to you before about death, and grieving. I'm so sorry that this seems to be happening a lot for you. Is there anything that you remember this person by? Pictures? Letters? Even though you aren't going to the funeral, it doesn't mean you still can't honor this person. I have lost many family members myself. Death is very sudden. Everyone reacts to it different. I want you to take care of yourself. Stay strong.


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Re: Angry. - March 23rd 2011, 08:41 AM

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I'm very sorry for your loss. I think I have talked to you before about death, and grieving. I'm so sorry that this seems to be happening a lot for you. Is there anything that you remember this person by? Pictures? Letters? Even though you aren't going to the funeral, it doesn't mean you still can't honor this person. I have lost many family members myself. Death is very sudden. Everyone reacts to it different. I want you to take care of yourself. Stay strong.
Yeah you did. I can only remember them.. for who they were, i have nothing else.. i know its silly.. but im just angry that they think im too childish and emotional to pay respect to someone close to me


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