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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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I miss you guys so much - March 31st 2011, 09:52 PM

My mom and dad died in a car accident 3 and a half weeks ago. I was in the car with them. Actually my dad died instantly my mom and I were badly hurt and were in the hospital. last week my mom passed away and 6 days ago I got out of the hospital just in time for her funeral I didnt even get to go to my dads. I miss them both soo much right now and I still feel like it isnt real and they will come back anytime they are just gone for a while. Im wondering how they both died and i am still here without them it just doesnt seem right
   
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Re: I miss you guys so much - April 2nd 2011, 02:56 AM

I am deeply sorry for your lose, your parents will be in my prayers.

As for your survival, it seems nothing less than a miracle, and perhaps it is showing you that maybe you survived because you have a purpose in this life, and people will need you to be around to help them, whoever they may be, wherever they may be.

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Re: I miss you guys so much - April 2nd 2011, 01:11 PM

I'm really sorry to hear this happened love. It's really natural to have that kind of surreal dreamy feeling after something like this has happened, but it won't last forever. You're very lucky to still be here, but don't question it, sometimes fate just works that way. What you need to do is just keep taking on day at a time and focus on looking after yourself. We're always here at TeenHelp to talk as well if you need us. xxx


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Re: I miss you guys so much - April 7th 2011, 04:46 PM

i am so very sorry for your loss kahlan . I know exactly what you mean about thinking they will come back and that it isnt real. I feel the same way about my friend. I cant even begin to imagine what it would be like to not be able to go to your own parents funeral. I am sure they are both watching you right now and very happy that you are still here to see the rest of your life. if you like you can pm me anytime.
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Re: I miss you guys so much - April 8th 2011, 09:32 PM

I am so sorry if you want to talk you can pm me


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Re: I miss you guys so much - April 10th 2011, 03:56 AM

Hello Kahlan,
I felt really sad reading what happened. I hope your recovery continues to progress well. You have my deepest condolences.
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Re: I miss you guys so much - April 10th 2011, 10:02 PM

Kahlan,

I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. It's understandable that you miss them so much right now, and am sorry you have had to go through this. It must be painful to have lost two people very close to you.
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Re: I miss you guys so much - April 10th 2011, 11:26 PM

Kahlan,
I am sorry you had to go through this. Like everyone else I will keep you in my prayers and even though I am new I will always be here to lend a ear... Or in this case an eye. Pm me if things get hard and or ranting is always welcomed.
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Re: I miss you guys so much - April 12th 2011, 06:47 AM

I am so sorry. That is just not fair. But you must have survived for a reason, right? If you ever wanna talk, im here for you. Feel free to PM me
   
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Re: I miss you guys so much - April 12th 2011, 02:53 PM

Kahlan,

I am so sorry for your loss, it must be horrible losing two people so close to you. I'm sorry you have had to go through this and If you ever want/need to talk feel free to PM me,

Stay strong hun, my thoughts are with you
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Re: I miss you guys so much - April 12th 2011, 03:50 PM

I'm so deeply sorry for your loss, dear! Stay strong for your parents, Kahlan. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I can only imagine how you must be feeling. And considering that the wound is still so fresh in your heart, I can understand that it's taking a lot of effort from you to be strong.

I lost my cousin in an accident. And I understand what it's like losing someone, and at such a young age. If you ever need to talk, you can PM me anytime, okay? Praying for your parents, and for you. Take care, love! <3


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