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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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11 yrs today :'( - April 20th 2011, 05:23 PM

Well. Today marks 11 years that my Dad passed away. gets easier only because I learned to cry silently if I'm in public. Mom's drunk. Again about it. Thank God I live with my Fiancee. But I worry about her... She's always said she wanted to die, but the only reason she hasn't killed herself is because I'm here. I'm scared that when I go visit her soon, I'm just going to find a body :/ Bahh. I miss my Dad. It's only proof that God takes the best people. RIP 4/20/2000



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Re: 11 yrs today :'( - April 20th 2011, 08:12 PM

I'm sorry for your loss Jen, it's always hard but I'm glad that you've got your fiancé there to support you.

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Re: 11 yrs today :'( - April 20th 2011, 08:21 PM

Jen, I definitely know what you are going through right now.
I lost my dad too. Losing a parents is not easy. You're going to make it through though.
Just hang in there. And know that you can ALWAYS PM me <3


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Re: 11 yrs today :'( - April 20th 2011, 08:23 PM

Hey Jen,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Today is going to be a difficult day for you but it is good you have got your fiance for support. Could you do something special to mark the day? Perhaps go and visit the grave or go to a special place your dad use to like. I lost my mum a long time ago as well and it doesn't seem to get any easier either. It is difficult and days like this make it more difficult.

It is ok to cry and let out how you are feeling. Don't keep it all inside. I will be thinking of you today

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