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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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Unhappy Need Help - April 26th 2011, 05:55 PM

Today is the one year anniversary of the death of my friend, its taken a harder toll on me than I thought. For the last 8 years or so, we have, in my town, had one person die each year, always around this time. Im scared, and I dont know what to do.
   
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Re: Need Help - April 26th 2011, 08:40 PM

Hey there.

I am really sorry about the loss of your friend. It can take a lifetime to grieve for someone who you're so close to and its understandable its still affecting you even years down the line. Try and think positively about the life they had and how they were lucky to have people like you as friends. Try and remember the happy times you had with them and see their death as a way to celebrate the life they had.

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Re: Need Help - April 26th 2011, 09:29 PM

Hey Jovan,

I am really sorry to hear about your loss. It is coming up to a year for me to since I lost a good friend. Anniversaries and special dates are really hard days to get through but I guess you have to try to look back at the good memories you spent together. Perhaps you could do something special today to celebrate your friends life.

I hope today goes ok for you. Stay strong.


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