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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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My whole family is going downhill.... - May 6th 2011, 06:37 PM

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So lately, i've been really depressed cause my mawmaw who has raised me my whole life basically and been the one i turn too for everything, and she has always been there for me when no one else was, anyways she got tested for cancer and her levels are up and they are going to find out where the cancer might be this week. I don't think i could handle losing her though She's my bestfriend, and the only person i can talk to, she understands me and accepts me for who i am and loves me no matter what. It's more than i can say for other members of my family. My step-daddy who has been basically a dad to be for almost 11 years he is really sick, he has back problems and lung cancer and is addicted to pain pills. It really bothers me to see him like this. My pawpaw who i am also very close to is having strokes and heart attacks alot. And my mom has never really been a mom to me, and she starting pills again. I am losing everyone in my family. I'm so scared. And really depressed
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Re: My whole family is going downhill.... - May 7th 2011, 09:25 AM

Hey, try to pull through, you've got friends like me to pull through because I know it will be hard whatever happens but I am sure they would like to see their daughter pull through and everyone would think wow she have been through so much and would be friends with you because YOU ARE BRAVE!
Like me, I'm deaf, I turn to my mum because im her girl, but without her, kill me. I know how it really feels. I get the thoughts too! Cus My mum may have cancer but I know you can do it. Strong feelings yeah?
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Re: My whole family is going downhill.... - May 21st 2011, 09:10 PM

I think you should try to make sure you make the most of time you have with them now, since that time is now very precious. Aim to do enjoyable thing's with them so you will be filled with happy memorys of them when they do die. Also, please remember you are not alone, people die every day leaving many people left griving too. These are people who have experienced it first hand therfore know what it's like. We are allways here for you whenever you need to chat just ask.


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