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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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my aunt died and i still think of how harsh it was sometimes - June 12th 2011, 10:59 PM

my aunt marilyn died in april, My aunt julie,my aunt linda,and her had a "falling out" and had family issues and has not talked for months. The family issues never did get resolved and my aunt marilyn wanted to talk to all of us and make things right by apologizing and also my aunt linda and marilyn were still talking but had fights ever so often. marilyn ran into my grandpa a couple of weeks before she died and had told him she didn't have any hard feelings against us but none of always wondered why she never did come talk to us. Their is a theory about marilyn actually been faught with every time she wanted to. She was a very good person and I miss her very much. I am having a wedding and she was on the guest list because I missed her so much and was going to go to her and visit but it is too late

the only issues that got resolved was between aunt linda and my aunt julie they had made up. but first my aunt julie was not allowed to come to the funeral but my uncles had told her to come to the funeral home because they didn't want to go in because it was too hard for them to face it and my aunt also ran off from my aunt marilyn's house by her son and wasn't allowed in the funeral home itself, so it was the toughest time for her. my aunt marilyn's son is horrible!

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Re: my aunt died and i still think of how harsh it was sometimes - June 13th 2011, 09:58 AM

Hey there,

I'm so sorry you've had to go through this. Death is never nice especially when there's a conflict unresolved before hand. I'm truely sorry for your loss and for the arguments your family are going through. It's obviously upsets you, so could you not talk to them about it? They may not realise just how upsetting it is for someone such as yourself and that your aunt wouldn't want it to carry on this way. Let her death bring the family together again, as sad as it is it could still help with something even if she's not there anymore.

I hope the funeral went okay, and things are getting resolved a bit now. You're free to PM me at anytime if you want to talk and i'll be happy to offer you any advice I can about this. Stay strong, and keep smiling, okay?

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