Triggering: help

[TaylerJaney33]

i just lost 3 people i love..all with in the same week
1) monday night, my friend and i were taking our friends home, a car blew through the intersection and slammed into our car. me and my other friend were the only two to survive. i didnt really know the other 2 people that passed, but their death weighs heavily on me. i lost my bestfriend, she was only 17
2) friday night, my family friend mark who helped raise me, passed suddenly in his sleep. he was only 54
3) saturday morning, my grandpa had a heartattack while walking the dog. he was only 75
and amid all this i am still trying to heal from my injuries, i may not ever get to play soccer again. and all i can think is why. why did they get taken away from me?! they had so much ahead of them. my bestfriend, we were supposed to go to college together. my family friend was so excited to see me volunteering were i loved. he always told me animal stories.
and my grandpa, my grandpa said he couldnt wait to be the first to hug me after graduation, even if it was two years away. how, how could this happen!?!?

[Reverie.]

Hey there.

I am so sorry to hear this, I really am. I can't imagine what it's like to lose so many important people within such a small amount of time. I really do feel for you though and I hope you don't feel too bad for this. I realise death is something horrible, and we all have to experience it in some form throughout our lives, so remember you're not alone. It's unfortunate that you've lost so many people, but it doesn't mean you can't get through this. Keep your chin up and remember, the memories will always survive when they did not. Just because they are gone, doesn't mean you can't remember them and smile at the good times you had. Memories are valuble, use them well.

I understand you will feel very upset during this time, but it's not something you need to go through on your own. Use the people around you to lean on, and let them support you. Talk to them about how you feel, cry to them, let it out. It's not healthy to hold everything inside yourself, and releasing all of the emotion you build up in a healthy way is a good idea. People are goinf through a similar thing to you right now. You don't have to do this on your own. Let them support you and in turn, you'll find you're supporting them back. While death hurts the people it leaves behind, it can bring them together just the same, so use this time to talk to the people you love.

Feel free to PM me at any time if you'd like to chat about anything. I'll be happy to just listen if that's what you'd like, or else provide some sort of advice for you. Remember, you're not alone and their memories are still alive so long as you keep them that way. Stay strong, you can do this.

Take care,
Hollie.