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July 20th 2011, 10:41 PM
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Hiya guys,
A good friend of mine died 3 weeks ago and its her funeral on Friday. I can't go but I still want to do something to say goodbye...any of you been here? Any advice or suggestions? Thanks in advance x "Friends are like stars; you don't always see them but you know they are always there"  "It gives me hope. I love you so much. You give me a reason to breathe. Its something for me to not kill myself for" >>> means so much :') Paramore! <3  Pm me anytime, I like to help! |
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July 20th 2011, 11:52 PM
Im sorry to hear for your loss, I wish you all the best in what will be a difficult time for you.
A grandparent of mine died recently, and I did get to go to the funeral, but I dident want to. Mainly because I knew their wish was not to have a frunerall at all, so by attending I dident do as they wanted. I understand this is allmost the opposite of your experiences but I am still willing to help you in any way I can. Can I ask what it is you should/will be doing at the time of the funeral wich means that you cannot go to it? depending on what it is most or allmost all thing's are understanding that people do die and people close to them greave. Funerals are important things that can never be re-created therfore I cannot think of a reason why somoene would not allow you to go to it. Obvesly without me knowing why you cannot go I cannot specificly help you but I am more than willing to do so if you just ask me. Either reply here or PM me. All the best to you Take care Dipka You have just read Dipka's forum post. Dipka is a HelpLINK mentor who is allays happy to help, please just let me know. Also, check out my profile for more about me
Dipka x IMPORTANT!! When replying partiqually if I started the tread please can people read the following thread http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f122-...ngs-propperly/ In that thread poast 6 clearly state's what coulors I can see best so please can you use these if possible so I can read your reply. Some of my favourite quotations *what does not destroy you as a warrior makes you stronger *the tree that is slowest to grow bears the sweetest fruit *when the sky is at it's darkest is when you can see the stars *Ancient stone cannot be polished without friction, nor a warrior perfected without trials *The warrior who has the ability to move mountains begins by carrying small stones Help-link Mentor 29/6/11 |
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July 21st 2011, 08:39 AM
Thanks for replying
 I can't go for several reasons...first off I have work, she didn't live by me, its about 2 hours away so I can't get there. I don't know exactly where it is or what time and I have no way of finding out. Her family don't know who I am. I wouldn't be welcome there and her family are abusive. Also, I wouldn't want the first time I saw her face to face to be when she is dead. So yeh...there you go x "Friends are like stars; you don't always see them but you know they are always there" "It gives me hope. I love you so much. You give me a reason to breathe. Its something for me to not kill myself for" >>> means so much :') Paramore! <3 Pm me anytime, I like to help! |
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July 21st 2011, 04:08 PM
Hey there,
First of all I'm sorry to hear the sad news. The funeral thing is something I've now experienced 3 times, though only the latest two have I understood why I couldnt go and actually been bothered about it. My way of doing something was to write poems for them. In the latest case, I was more experienced and of course older and I understood why I wasn't allowed to go, so writing the poem allowed me to express feelings towards this person in another form. The poem was then actually placed in the programme and I believe read out, so it was me paying my repsects without being there. Perhaps you could do this? Take care, Hollie.  Would you let me see beneath your beautiful Would you let me see beneath your perfect Take it off now girl, take it off now girl I wanna see inside. ღ |
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July 21st 2011, 05:06 PM
Hey Hollie, thanks for replying
I wont b able to get it in the programme but I will probably write something for her. Good idea, thanks xx "Friends are like stars; you don't always see them but you know they are always there" "It gives me hope. I love you so much. You give me a reason to breathe. Its something for me to not kill myself for" >>> means so much :') Paramore! <3 Pm me anytime, I like to help! |
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