to have Rememberance of my Best Friend -
September 12th 2011, 07:48 PM
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Well next year its going on 5 Years of my Bestfriend that Commited Suicide, I have a Portrait of him that I want to have as a Tattoo just incase I lose them Pictures...Would that be a Good Idea bc his mom is in Jail for a Long time n his Sister is with her moms mom...I just think i would want that n put the Month,date,year he Died...Plz give me some Advice...
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Re: to have Rememberance of my Best Friend -
September 12th 2011, 08:27 PM
Firstly Im sorry to hear that this happend to you. I know from experience that it's probably the last thing you want someone to say-I understand that. But thenagain. Hearing that someone is sorry for you means they are thinking of you and reasures you that your not alone. This is why I say it.
It seams like in the 5 years since he died you have come a long way from it. -Wich is to be expected, 5 years is a long time- If you want a more permante way to remember him then I personally think a tatoo is a great idea. Just a feiw things I would say though
-Think about what the tatoo is of? It will be there forever (im assmuming your thinking of a permant tatoo here) It will need to be relevent in whatever situation you are in. Think carefully to avoid you ending up in any sticky situations
-Further to the point above think about where you put it. Yes their will be times when you want it to be visible-that's fine. But then more than likely their will be times you want to hide it. So make sure you can put it somewhere that is easily hidden in more than one way.
-Finally. (this is more a point for myself but I say it anyway) Make sure it will not do you any damage. Such as your skin or whatever. I know from having really bad skin that I get a bad reaction to allmost enything. Chances are you will be different though.
I hope this helps you somehow
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