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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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12.10.76~7.6.10 - December 10th 2011, 07:07 PM

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RIP Tio Ralph...

He wasn't actually my uncle, he was my best friend's uncle, and they're Hispanic, so he's Tio Ralph, and I always considered them my family, and he was always Tio Ralph to me.......

Today would have been his 35th birthday

He committed suicide July 6th 2010...........

And yeah I really miss him.........................................



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Re: 12.10.76~7.6.10 - December 11th 2011, 05:29 AM

Hugs. Hang in there hun. I know it is hard to deal with.

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Re: 12.10.76~7.6.10 - December 11th 2011, 07:20 PM

Sometimes it helps me to do something special on days like these. I know I'm a day late giving you advice, but you could still do something special and maybe it would help.

Such as, light a candle whenever you think of him. This way it's honoring him and taking a moment to remember him. Or, on special anniversaries like his birthday, Christmas, etc. release some balloons and include messages you wish you could give to him.

If you knew his favorite sports team, you could even make a decorative piece based on that yearly, like a cup coaster, or just a ribbon you can tie around flowers for his grave, or just for yourself to remember him by.

Hope this helps a little bit. So sorry for you and the family's loss.


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Re: 12.10.76~7.6.10 - December 11th 2011, 08:14 PM

Thanks guys it means a lot.


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Re: 12.10.76~7.6.10 - December 11th 2011, 09:35 PM

Hey there,
I know I'm a little late with this, but I just wanted to say I'm sorry for your loss. I know how tough it can be to lose someone important to you. Kelly had some great ideas to use to honor him. I'd definitely suggest going with some of those. Hang in there. Keep your memories of him happy.
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Re: 12.10.76~7.6.10 - December 11th 2011, 10:24 PM

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Re: 12.10.76~7.6.10 - December 12th 2011, 12:38 AM

I also want to say sorry for the loss.

I have seemed to lost alot of people around me the last year or so - so I know the hopeless feeling you sometimes get.

If you ever want to just message me and talk about things feel free - I dont mind talking to someone just for no good reason. Sometimes pointless conversations help! I hope all goes well and that you feel better.

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