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January 11th 2012, 01:17 AM
So alli would of been 10 months today and in 2 months she would of been a year. I'm really losing it today.
Allianna Faith 3/10/11-9/18/11 </3 You never know what you've got till it's gone..   |
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 11th 2012, 02:23 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. You have a beautiful guardian angel watching over you. You two will once again be together. Stay Strong!
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 11th 2012, 02:38 AM
 Its going to be okay. Alli is in a better place right now, but shes never too far away. You may not see her, but she sees you and shes looking down on you, sending you love. I'm so very sorry, and I wish my very best to you. Please PM me if you ever want to talk about anything. 
When someone apologizes enough times for something they'll never stop doing I think its fearless to stop believing them. I think its fearless to say "Your NOT sorry" and walk away.
I have died everyday waiting for you, darling don't be afraid I have loved you for a thousand years. I'll love you for a thousand more <3  ~You are my hero~ |
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 11th 2012, 02:46 AM
Mandii, I'm so sorry. I can't make everything better for you and my words probably mean nothing but Alli loves you and would want you to be strong. She's still with you. I know how hard it is. I know. But please, stay strong. You can do this. I believe in you girly. <3
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C'est la vie. ♥
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 11th 2012, 04:40 AM
Awh, Mandii. I can't even imagine how tough this is for you. But, remember what I told you: Alli is looking down on you and she loves her mommy very much. I know hitting the year mark is going to be tough, but you should do something to celebrate her. You are so strong for dealing with this the way that you are. You inspire me. Of course, get in touch with me if you need to talk. I'd be happy to listen.
 Love you, girl.
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 11th 2012, 10:42 PM
Anniversaries and other special days are tough. You are allowed to feel whatever comes up for you. I would like to encourage you to remember her today, but to also do something kind for yourself. Have a hot bath, read a good book, do something that makes you feel good. Self care is very important, but also allow yourself to grieve.
If you need anything, PM me. Jen Jen Buddy  Proud Mama of 2 Adopted Dogs Koda- Shepherd/Malamute Penny- Lab/Redbone Coon Hound  |
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January 12th 2012, 02:39 AM
My best friend passed away in March. She was a pre-school teacher and LOVED little kids.. I can guarantee that she is looking after your little angel.
  R.I.P. Clementyne Fishman, gone too soon, but never forgotten |
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 12th 2012, 10:55 AM
Hey Mandii I am so sorry about your sweet little baby
 I can't even begin to imagine how hard this must be on you. I am sure she is in a safe place and you will see her again one day. I can't really say much to make you feel better and I agree with what everyone above has said.
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 12th 2012, 06:57 PM
Thanks...
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NO LONGER A N00B! HOORAH!
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 12th 2012, 08:40 PM
I clicked on this out of curiosity, and found to my intrigue that your daughter's name is Allianna Faith -- mine's actually Anna Faith. I thought it was pretty cool.
I know that this pain of loss is hard to get through, but your child lives on in your memories and your love for her keeps her alive in your heart. I can tell that you cared very much for your child. Keep those memories of caring for her and treasure them, for they are yours, and no matter how far away your child is, those memories will always be yours. Stay strong.
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 13th 2012, 12:14 AM
Im so sorry=( But like everyone said, your baby is not truly gone. She is with you all the time and looking down on you too. Just cause you can't see her doesn't mean she's not there. She loves her mommy and will always love her mommy. She knows you miss her. I know it must be extremely hard for you, but think of it this way. Don't be sad that she's gone, be happy she lived. She's always there hun and is never going to leave you. Someday, you will be together again. Its not goodbye.
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 13th 2012, 07:22 PM
Anniversaries like these are always hard. And im sorry you lost your baby. But shes watching over you and keeping you safe. <3
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 15th 2012, 04:58 AM
Thank you..
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 15th 2012, 09:35 PM
Hey, Mandii. I can't even begin to comprehend the amount of pain you must be in right now, but I know that you have it in you to be strong through this. Anniversaries are the hardest times to deal with a loss but you're beautiful and brave. Try not to forget that. Your child is with you still. She may not be here in body, but she knows that you're her mom and she's always with you. I'm always here if you need a chat.
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 16th 2012, 01:12 AM
im sorry hon
things will get better though, you just have to stay strong for her <3
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 16th 2012, 11:09 AM
I am sorry.....I'm sure things like these hurt a LOT.....but I'm also sure that you'll emerge from it....stay strong and take care! xx
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 16th 2012, 11:37 PM
I'm so sorry, Losing someone is always hard, especially your own child. Stay strong, She would want you to be happy. You have a very special guardian angel watching over you <3
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 17th 2012, 12:31 PM
thank you guys...
Allianna Faith 3/10/11-9/18/11 </3 You never know what you've got till it's gone.. |
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 18th 2012, 06:32 AM
Hey Mandii. I could never imagine how hard it must be to go through what you are, but just remember that Allianna is looking down on her wonderful mother and smiling. Anniversaries are always going to be a hard time, but when you hit one year, instead of thinking about the pain, try to celebrate her life. Stay strong hun, you will make it through this and see her again...
Don not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail- Ralf Waldo Emerson ...but if you look at me closely you will see it in my eyes, this girl will always find her way...<3 The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams- Eleanor Roosevelt  since 26/3/2012 |
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 18th 2012, 08:13 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm sure Alli is looking down on you from heaven, proud of you for staying strong. Much love to you and your family! <3
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 26th 2012, 12:13 AM
Thank you... :/
Allianna Faith 3/10/11-9/18/11 </3 You never know what you've got till it's gone.. |
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Re: She would of been 10 months today.. -
January 30th 2012, 07:21 PM
i'm sorry for your loss, if you ever need anyone to talk to my inbox, VM wall and chat pm's (when in chat) are always open. <3
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