Support Forums Today's Posts

Get Advice Connect with TeenHelp Resources
HelpLINK Facebook     Twitter     Tumblr     Instagram    Hotlines    Safety Zone    Alternatives

You are not registered or have not logged in

Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!)

As a guest on TeenHelp you are only able to use some of our site's features. By registering an account you will be able to enjoy unlimited access to our site, and will be able to:

  • Connect with thousands of teenagers worldwide by actively taking part in our Support Forums and Chat Room.
  • Find others with similar interests in our Social Groups.
  • Express yourself through our Blogs, Picture Albums and User Profiles.
  • And much much more!

Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now!

Death and Grieving Coping with loss is difficult at any age, but you are not alone during this difficult time. Reach out to other users in this forum.

Closed Thread
Thread Tools Search this Thread
  (#1 (permalink)) Old
LadyBethie Offline
Welcome me, I'm new!
LadyBethie's Avatar
Name: Bethanie
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Location: Notts, UK

Posts: 1
Join Date: March 28th 2009

Lost my sister in 2006 - March 28th 2009, 05:06 PM

I lost my gorgeous little sister Millie in a tragic accident where she became trapped down the side of her bed and suffocated, Sh was 21 months old. I am looking for other bereaved siblings who understand the pain, PM me for my msn address.

Beth x
  (#2 (permalink)) Old
Chazzz Offline
Regular TeenHelper
Chazzz's Avatar
Name: Charlotte
Gender: Female

Posts: 404
Join Date: January 30th 2009

Re: Lost my sister in 2006 - March 28th 2009, 11:36 PM

Hi Beth.

I'm terribly sorry for your loss. Although I do not share your pain, I understand how you must feel. The thought of losing one of my younger siblings is horrible.

Feel free to PM me anytime you need a chat. :]
  (#3 (permalink)) Old
*Jen* Offline
keep smiling :-)
Outside, huh?
*Jen*'s Avatar
Name: Jen
Age: 29
Gender: Female
Location: England

Posts: 3,668
Blog Entries: 211
Join Date: January 6th 2009

Re: Lost my sister in 2006 - March 30th 2009, 03:14 PM

Hey Beth,
I am really sorry to hear that you lost your sister. I could never say I could understand what that feels like because I don't. I have lost my mum though so I do know how much it hurts to lose someone so close who you love. If you ever need someone to talk to then you are more than welcome to PM me. I hope it gets a bit easier in time. Keep hanging on. Stay strong :-)
  (#4 (permalink)) Old
Darrenboy! Offline
my long tongue is long.
Senior TeenHelper
Darrenboy!'s Avatar
Age: 41
Location: MARS! :D

Posts: 944
Blog Entries: 1
Join Date: January 5th 2009

Re: Lost my sister in 2006 - March 31st 2009, 01:34 PM


I'm sad to hear what you went through . It must be very painful to hear your Millie apparently " leave " just like that.

BUT, there is ONE VERY BIG REASON why i put those apostrophes over there . those people who we love, and truly care for, NEVER ever truly leave. And same goes for anyone who lost someone they love and care for. always remember that Millie's ALWAYS together with you, in heart and in soul. Her body may not be right beside you, but you can definitely feel her warmth deep inside.

And yeah , She would definitely want to see you overcome all the anguish, because her heart forever stays together with you, Bethanie

You have Millie's love, now and always.

ALWAYS here to help and listen in case there's anything

Those who have went through more pain than everyone else, and want to protect anyone and everyone they know and care for from that pain, are stronger than everyone.

we come, we help, we stick and never leave. pm me anytimeee!

Official member of the completely Unofficial free hugs Club !

I'm firing mah Hugs!
  (#5 (permalink)) Old
twiggy08 Offline
Not a n00b
twiggy08's Avatar
Name: nat
Gender: Female
Location: barnsley,england

Posts: 50
Join Date: January 21st 2009

Re: Lost my sister in 2006 - April 1st 2009, 08:42 PM

i lost my twin sis 3 days after birth i cant fully compare to ur pain as i didnt know her but i no tht wen i found out i felt awful and quilty etc im here if u want some help x
  (#6 (permalink)) Old
eunoia Offline
(n) beautiful thinking
Jeez, get a life!
eunoia's Avatar
Name: Jes
Gender: Female
Location: USA

Posts: 5,887
Blog Entries: 2
Join Date: January 5th 2009

Re: Lost my sister in 2006 - April 3rd 2009, 12:36 AM

Hey there, Beth.

I can't begin to understand the pain you must be feeling, right now and every day. I can't imagine living the rest of my life without my brother.

The loss of a loved one is tragic, devastating. Especially, I think, the loss of a child. I am so sorry you are facing this, Beth, but remember that you are not alone. Reach out to your loved ones, whenever you need to.

Maybe you could look into support groups, though, or grief counseling. It may sound silly, but it could be what you need, right now.

I wish I had more to say, but I can't ease your pain. Please don't hesitate to let me know if you need anything. Anything at all. Take care of yourself.

Someday I will be strong enough to lift not one but both of us.
I told you to be patient
I told you to be fine
I told you to be balanced
I told you to be kind
Closed Thread


2006, lost, sister

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

All material copyright 1998-2019, TeenHelp.
Terms | Legal | Privacy | Conduct | Complaints

Powered by vBulletin®.
Copyright ©2000-2020, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search engine optimization by vBSEO.
Theme developed in association with vBStyles.