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Unhappy URGENT - January 3rd 2013, 07:59 PM


Yesterday i got an email from someone who said they had lots of naked pictures of me. they gave me 2 options either they email them to everyone i know or i become there online gf.

i dont no who they are or y they are doing this. the only way they could of got or this info is if the had hacked my computer. they seem to know me, they wrote ' you mums email is XXXX but ur mums fb is xxxxxxx
its like they no everything about me . there now black mailing me by saying if i tell anyone they'll post all the pics online and on fb.

Obviously i told my mum and dad. they haves said to c wot he does the only problem is if i dont give him more pics he will ruin me. Now the thing is if i tell the police this they will find him but they may not have enough eveidence to actually charge him or arrest him. but they do no.

then hes free to go and put the pics up like he said i would if i told anyone. now all i need to do is get as much eveidence as i can to prosecute him. if i have the right evidence i could charge him with black mail, threating and hacking a computer and having indecent images. the only problem is my times running out and so i need to prolong him as much as i can.
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Re: URGENT - January 3rd 2013, 08:36 PM

This isn't exactly a great situation; however, for the sake of privacy protection, I'd suggest that this is not a great place for you to come for advice often now - if he can hack computers, then he may well be able to see that you've posted here.
Therefore, I'd recommend not discussing what you'll do and plans here.

I highly suggest talking to the police about things - I have some ideas, but I'm not too keen on sharing them here if there's a chance that he'll see my post...it would kinda defeat the purpose.
They will be able to come up with a strategy with you, and then hopefully prosecutions will follow.

Best of luck, and please do everything you can to stay safe.

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Re: URGENT - January 5th 2013, 02:03 AM

Call the Police - If you're under 18 he called be charged with possessing or sending child pornography... Even if he hasn't sent any pictures yet, If the pictures are in his possession then he can be charged with possession and if charged he would probably end up being on the sexual predators registry; restricting his chances for work, his living arrangements and his future relationships ( he wouldn't be able to live near schools or work in any occupation involving kids or students). And they can get that evidence buy going through his computer/ raiding his house (if it helps). And you CAN show them the email and use that as evidence. Because You can also get him charged for harassment if it is an ongoing process or is causing you distress.

Ask him how he got the pictures first. You never know maybe It's someone you know and they could be trying to freak you out (even if they do not have the pictures). Get the police onto him though BEFORE he sends them. Because If he says that he doesn't have the pictures before he sends them, and then is questioned after he sends them then obviously he will get charged...
also Call crime stoppers and report the email address as threatening to send child pornography and also possessing it.
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Re: URGENT - January 6th 2013, 12:27 PM

Thanks for the advice he can't track me writing this cause im not writing of my laptop. ive told 2 of my best mates and they are there for me but are worrying for my saftey at the moment. i cant stop crying and im scared my grades will drop if i cant concentrate and i go bak to sch in 2 days time, and 1 of my best mates will be there to help me get throught this, im so scared at the moment the policce wont do a thing yet cause he hasnt done anything with them.
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