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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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Unhappy Everyone thinks I'm ugly... why do I care so much? Why do they compare me? - January 13th 2013, 12:05 AM

It hurts... I used to be anorexic and get made fun of for being flat-chested... I get made fun of more now than I did when I was chunky... my sister who's three years younger than me has bigger boobs... ._.

I'm always compared to my more attractive friends and I feel so horrible I could die... I'll never be good enough, not even for my boyfriend. I was born looking like this, so how can I change?
   
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Re: Everyone thinks I'm ugly... why do I care so much? Why do they compare me? - January 13th 2013, 05:05 PM

First of all,remind yourself that every body is different. People have this extremely bad habit to destroy people's self-esteem and feelings and God knows why,they do feel good about it.
The ones who do that don't deserve your attention and time,so try to focus on what makes you happy. I know how much it hurts when someone laughs about the way you look,I've been called fat many times. And boobs are not a golden mine,there are a lot of girls who are flat-chested and they are attractive. Try to move your attention to the parts of your body that you like,for example your eyes or anything else you do like.
Secondly,don't ever tell yourself that you're useless or not good enough,that's not true! I bet you have wonderful qualities and your personality is more important than the way you look.
If someone does not accept the way you look,then they do not deserve your soul.
Comparisons are useless,you are not a clone!You ARE good enough! Start thinking positively!
   
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