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I guess he's not my friend anymore. - April 21st 2013, 01:53 PM

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Can't get over it... He became an asshole to me, he wasn't really my best friend anymore... And besides, it was just a crush... So why does it burn? Why do I miss him so bad? It wasn't anything special. It was just a crush. That's what they always tell me. So why can't I get over it? It hurts so bad... School tomorrow, I'll have to see him in the morning and in between classes... Why does it matter so much to me? It didn't hurt this much when Tessa moved away in kindergarten. It didn't hurt this much when Cassie backstabbed me when I was 7. It didn't hurt this much when Norman moved away when I was 8. It didn't hurt this much when Sienna backstabbed me by telling all my secrets and turning all my friends against me... Nothing hurt this much... I haven't hurt this much since AFTER Sienna turned everyone against me... I went months being alone and hated... And it started to get to me. I guess my 'friends' and 'family' should be proud... I haven't self harmed at all yet... I've fought it - It does nothing to help anyone and it just makes things worse if people spot the scars...

I knew I could trust him... I THOUGHT I could trust him... But clearly I was wrong. Also, my other male best friend has lied to me twice lately... And my female best friend isn't being too pleasant either... Well, looks like the only things I can trust are my music, and my cat.

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Re: I guess he's not my friend anymore. - April 21st 2013, 02:09 PM

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i am sorry that you are having a hard time. i am so prowed that you have not self harmed. you are right it only hurts you more. why hurt your self because other are hurting you. you seem vary smart and nice. all the people that hurt you have lost out on a good friend.
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Re: I guess he's not my friend anymore. - April 21st 2013, 02:17 PM

Oh sweetie im sorry all this is happening to you.
Sometimes life can be horrible but your only twelve so you have your whole life ahead of you.
I wasn't very popular and treated well till I got to middle school.
People can be cruel and it is always sad when friends leave but you'll always make new ones.
I'm so proud of you for staying SH free even through your hard times.
We are all here for you.

PM/VM me if you wanna talk.

Every heartbreak we go through makes us the perfect person for our soulmates. Shaping us into what they've always been looking for.

Need to talk, PM me.

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Re: I guess he's not my friend anymore. - April 21st 2013, 07:14 PM

Hi, Alana

I'm really sorry to hear about this. I know it can hurt to lose a friend, but the pain won't last forever, trust me. Life goes on, you lose old friends and make new ones. And you're twelve years of age, so you have many years ahead of you yet. So, don't lose hope over something like this. Though it may seem like a big deal now, you'll probably find that, given some time, it won't seem like such a massive issue anymore.

I'm proud of you for remaining SH free during these difficult times. Also, I don't know if this individual has been saying nasty things to you or anything of the likes, but, if they make you feel uncomfortable, tell someone about it, as you can't let that continue. You don't deserve that either.

Hang in there.
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