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Unhappy I was recorded and threatened - May 31st 2013, 07:00 PM

I went on omegle to have fun and I've been doing it for quite a while. I didn't show my face, just half of it, but I accidentally moved my camera and my face was shown for about 5 seconds. This guy conned me to take my shirt off and just have my bra on. I know its wrong, and i really learned my lesson now. So then he recorded a video of me with my face and being topless (with bra) and threatened me. I tried to keep him on while not showing anything and reported to omegle that they should trace the man who I was chatting with asap. Idk if they did anything about it though. I hope they did. And should i be threatened? I conned him to delete the vid and he did (even in the recycle bin) because i promised to show him everything if he remove the vid with my face. so he deleted it but he told me he has a program that would be able to recover that deleted video. But i took my chances and after he deleted it, i disconnected. Should I be threatened though? I didn't show much but he really got my face and my boobs. I don't know how i'm suppose to feel about this. Please help. I wanna stay calm but I'm not sure if its right to stay calm or panic.
   
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Re: I was recorded and threatened - June 1st 2013, 12:41 AM

Don't overreact, first of all.

If you're a minor, this situation could be resolved very simply, but it would require going to the authorities - I'd say the situation calls for it, honestly. If you're not a minor, then the law will view you as having acted of your own accord, which makes things more tricky. In that case, I'd suggest you continue to research legal options (I can help, if you'd like). Otherwise, this man will probably continue to harass you.

I've never been in this situation, but in either case I'd imagine it would be best to play it cool. If the person in question believes that you've given up and don't care, he has nothing on you. If he does put it out into public, you can press charges against him.

Now, if you are a minor, then go to or call your local police station and report this nonsense. The man/boy has child porn of you, and will be charged severely by law. This situation will be looked over thoroughly, as this man or boy may have done this same thing to other girls before, or may do it in the future; the law will see him as a threat. You will be very likely given some more solid advice on what to do in the meantime.

In the future, best to avoid this situation, eh?


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Re: I was recorded and threatened - June 1st 2013, 05:30 PM

I'm not a minor but I never gave out any personal information about myself at all. I really think he has no way of finding me does he? So do I have to relax and just forget about this matter and just learn from it?? A part of me really wants to, but I'm scared that if I do, something might happen. However, I feel that he came from another country, because of the way he talks (chat) so I think it's really nearly impossible for him to find me. Don't you think so? OMG. I'm really still panicking although I know the situation well.
   
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Re: I was recorded and threatened - June 1st 2013, 07:36 PM

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I'm not a minor but I never gave out any personal information about myself at all. I really think he has no way of finding me does he? So do I have to relax and just forget about this matter and just learn from it?? A part of me really wants to, but I'm scared that if I do, something might happen. However, I feel that he came from another country, because of the way he talks (chat) so I think it's really nearly impossible for him to find me. Don't you think so? OMG. I'm really still panicking although I know the situation well.
It's alright. Don't let him scare you.

If he lives in a different country, and you've given him very little personal information, there's very little possibility of him finding you. The only way he could harm you from such a difference would be if he is able to spread your image all over the internet, which if you don't react, I really doubt he'd do. The thing with most of these folks is that most of them are lazy, and they get a high from hurting women and their feelings; if they aren't hurting the woman in question, and getting to do whatever they like, then the only thing they have against you is taken away.

You'll be okay. Believe that, and he can't bother you.


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