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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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Unhappy Trapped in Everyone Lies and Rumors - September 26th 2013, 12:04 AM

For the past six months I have been dealing with a lot of mental bulling from people I use to be so close to: My Ex Best Friend, My son's Father and even my own sibling (little sister). I even get the issues with people that don't even know me. My son's Father has called me loose, A slut, A whore, he's called me psycho and plenty of other names I hide with tears under my covers. My son's Father is now telling my sisters boyfriend that I am talking about her having quickies with a guy she works with, which I never said. I even got into a fist fight with my sister. I don't know how to vent about how this all makes me feel. . .I'm lost and confused and I don't know who to turn to when my parents wont listen and everyone that I use to trust has turn the other cheek on me, telling me nothing but lies that I always find out about. I use to be so close to my baby sister< to be honest, I miss her Anyone out there have advise for me on how to get away from all of this Drama? I'm really trying to reach out to someone who can give me some wise advise, has anyone been going through this like me?
   
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Re: Trapped in Everyone Lies and Rumors - September 26th 2013, 08:15 PM

Hi there,

I'm really sorry about what you've been going through at the hands of these people. I want you to try and not let the nasty things they say get to you, okay? I've been through bullying, and I still find that it mustn't say a lot about someone if they feel the need to hurt others and bring them down in order to get some sort of gratification for theirselves.

The bullying and harassment you're experiencing has reached a rather elevated level, and I'd recommend you undertake rather proactive initiative to get it stopped by informing some sort of authority. It's not acceptable for these people to be spreading false and abusive rumours about you.

I hope you get this sorted soon. Stay strong.

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Re: Trapped in Everyone Lies and Rumors - September 26th 2013, 09:23 PM

Thank you, Gareth. I appreciate the advice. I'm just very lost right now, I already have a hard time trusring anyone because of my childhood and it doesn't make things any better when the people I thought would always be there for me took a harsh turn.
   
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Re: Trapped in Everyone Lies and Rumors - September 26th 2013, 09:33 PM

No worries! I understand how you feel. I went through a lot as a child, and I still have issues trusting people, and it makes things hard when people I think I can trust subsequently turn on me. But you can get through it! They're the ones missing out if they treat you like that.

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