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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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Unhappy How do I deal with this? - January 31st 2015, 01:30 AM

So I'm trying out for my schools drill team.
I'm really good at dance and I love the team.. there's a person in my group ( she also goes to my school ) who has bullied me for almost 2 yrs now.. I'm secretly hoping she doesn't make the team. She keeps saying that I'm going in front of her, but I can't see behind me. And the dance instructors stated that if a person is going in front of you then space out more ( I've asked them to do this many times but they don't listen ), and when I don't go in front of her "Arion didn't go in front of me this time" like.. I already have to deal with her at school and I have no support from home about drill team.. I'm seriously thinking about dropping out. tryouts are Saturday ( my tomorrow ) and I'm not sure how to handle it, I stood up to her today but, tomorrow I'm not sure what exactly to do.
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Re: How do I deal with this? - January 31st 2015, 01:34 AM

Don't let her bring you down. You've got this, and if this is something you love, then you should go for it regardless of what anyone says. I'm sure you'll make the team and you'll do great.


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Re: How do I deal with this? - February 1st 2015, 05:00 AM

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I hope you ended up trying out for the team! Like it has already been said, if this is something you like, then you should be able to participate in it regardless of what anyone else says. If anything, you'll show this girl how strong and determined you are by deciding to try out.


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Re: How do I deal with this? - February 1st 2015, 12:04 PM

same sentiments as Cassiopeia

i hope you didnt allow her to run away from what you want
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Re: How do I deal with this? - February 4th 2015, 04:01 PM

Hi there,
Did you try out for the drill team? If so, how did it go?






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Re: How do I deal with this? - February 5th 2015, 06:47 PM

Hi there Arion,

I'm so sorry this has been happening to you and that you feel you have no support at home That can be tough. Have you talked to your dance instructors about it? Maybe you can have a short private talk with one of them. Even if you just get your thoughts our it will help.

Good job at standing up to the girl! Don't drop out. If you love dance, then stick to it and keep on doing your best. You'll see that throughout life there is always one person in a group or on a team (work, school, recreational, etc) who is a bit of a troublemaker or hard to get along with. It's just life. You have to keep on doing what you love and give it your best. Focus on making YOU happy

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Re: How do I deal with this? - February 16th 2015, 08:44 PM

Since the date of the try-outs has passed and the results have been determined, I'm going ahead and closing this thread. If you have any questions or would like this thread re-opened, please send me a PM.






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