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How do I react to nudes being posted - February 23rd 2015, 02:08 AM

So basically on Friday some popular people at my school decided they should make a groupe kik convo. Kik is a messaging app if you didn't know. Anywho, those people decided they should post a bunch of peoples nudes. Some of which happened to be mine. None of the other girls whose pics were on there knew, this guy just told me about it today.
Now lets just talk about me and nudes for a mintue. (Im in 8th grade) So in 6th and 7th grade I was super self consious because I have this thing called trich which is a whole seperate thing in itslef, anyway I sent pics to about 3 guys total and one of them showed a bunch of people so I learned my lesson and quit sending and havent since. So these nudes were 1 from like a year ago and 2 one of those guys. I asked all of them of course they deny it. But like I don't know how I should react like should I go off on people like what the hell.. tell the cops cuz like technically its child porn but then I'd get in trouble as well, and I dont wanna be like a taddle tale, or since theres nothing I can do about it now should I just be like oh well..?
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Re: How do I react to nudes being posted - February 23rd 2015, 04:23 PM

Hi Maya,

Although I don't use that app, I've heard of it and I'm slightly familiar with it.

Although it would be nice for one of those guys to be truthful, it is unlikely. I don't think you should confront any of those guys, at least while you're upset. I don't think they'll be truthful, but if you do confront them, try to wait until things have cooled down a little bit so you can be polite.

If your face isn't in the pictures, then I doubt that many people will be able to tell that it's you just by looking at them as there are a lot of nudes out there. There is a chance of them being removed if you do come forward and make someone aware of this and whether or not you do that is completely up to you.

I'm glad to hear that you don't send nudes anymore. Definitely continue to refrain from doing that.


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Re: How do I react to nudes being posted - February 23rd 2015, 06:38 PM

First of all, I hope you're doing okay with trich- I have it as well and it's definitely a self-esteem downer, that is, if you are referring to trichotillomania, not trichomonas.

If your face isn't in the photos, then I wouldn't worry all too much. You make a great point that you are under 18, though. If those boys were to leak those pictures to say, more than just their little circle, then I would take action by telling your parent(s) that they somehow got a crude photograph of you and they're spreading it around. They could get into some serious trouble for that, but unless this escalates, then I would just learn the lesson and shake it off.



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Re: How do I react to nudes being posted - February 24th 2015, 06:26 PM

Hiya,

As others have said, if you face isn't in the picture then it would be unlikely for others to recognise it as you. If the photos are leaked to more people then I would suggest talking to your parents, or other family member who you trust as they can try and get it sorted for you.

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