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Is it okay to snitch? - December 8th 2015, 02:57 PM

I should've said tell or tatle tale but same thing. I'm really scared to tell because I know that I'm just wasting my time because he's just gonna lie like last time then I'm gonna look like an idiot. I don't want to be embarrassed I just want him to stop. Plus I'm not good at explaining things and I get nervous. Its the same boy from my last thread titled "He won't stop." I don't know what else to do.
   
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Re: Is it okay to snitch? - December 8th 2015, 04:47 PM

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I should've said tell or tatle tale but same thing. I'm really scared to tell because I know that I'm just wasting my time because he's just gonna lie like last time then I'm gonna look like an idiot. I don't want to be embarrassed I just want him to stop. Plus I'm not good at explaining things and I get nervous. Its the same boy from my last thread titled "He won't stop." I don't know what else to do.
I don't know what the context is because you haven't said much about it. Is he getting other people to laugh at you? Or is it just 1-on-1?

If 1-on-1... it sounds like a retarded way for someone else to try to make "friends" with you. So, do what you will with it then, but you shouldn't feel intimidated or belittled by a retard. 17 year olds don't usually act like that, 7 year olds do. For real. You are seriously, best off igoring it completely. When you pick a seat before a class, just make sure it's not facing him. "Snitching" is a waste of time.

If he's getting others to laugh at you... then obviously there's something malicious in it, and it's a bigger topic that I don't want to start on unless I know that that is really the case.


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Re: Is it okay to snitch? - December 8th 2015, 07:16 PM

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I don't know what the context is because you haven't said much about it. Is he getting other people to laugh at you? Or is it just 1-on-1?

If 1-on-1... it sounds like a retarded way for someone else to try to make "friends" with you. So, do what you will with it then, but you shouldn't feel intimidated or belittled by a retard. 17 year olds don't usually act like that, 7 year olds do. For real. You are seriously, best off igoring it completely. When you pick a seat before a class, just make sure it's not facing him. "Snitching" is a waste of time.

If he's getting others to laugh at you... then obviously there's something malicious in it, and it's a bigger topic that I don't want to start on unless I know that that is really the case.
He copies me and its getting on my nerves. He's just really secretive about it so the teachers don't see it. I already told on him before but he lied on me and said that he didn't know what I was talking about. And the teachers knew that he was lying so what the fuck! They basically took his side in an indirect way and that really pissed me the fuck off. I really just wanna switch schools. But it'll be difficult.
   
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Re: Is it okay to snitch? - December 9th 2015, 04:24 AM

There's nothing wrong with telling someone how you're feeling or what you're going through. I know you've tried to reach out about this and I'm proud of you for doing that. You said your teachers indirectly took this boy's side and since he is good at lying, I don't suggest reaching out to them again. He'll probably lie again and if the teachers do take his side it will cause you more aggravation than necessary. I do like the idea of trying to ignore him if you can. He could be doing it to see your reaction and if you don't give him the reaction he is looking for, maybe he'll stop.


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Re: Is it okay to snitch? - December 9th 2015, 07:41 PM

I told my guidance consuler after school today. I really wanted to tell my vice principals but they were busy so I told her. She had me write an incident report. She said that she's gonna give it to Ms. Lopez. Ms. Lopez is one of my vice principals but she also works with the administration. My guidance consulor said that she'll see me tomorrow morning so I guess their gonna call both of us down. But I really don't want to be called down with him because like I said he lies. I was scared to tell but I talked myself into doing it anyway.
   
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Re: Is it okay to snitch? - December 9th 2015, 09:06 PM

I'm glad to hear you went and spoke to someone in a higher position than your teachers are in; that would have been my other suggestion. Hopefully they don't call both of you in at the same time. If it's possible, consider asking if the two of you can be called in separately.

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