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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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Girls that think they're better than everyone else - August 3rd 2009, 11:35 AM

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Recently I have experianced some girls in my class who think they are better than me because they have boyfriends and can do back flips and sports. I'm a typical geeky girl who reads books. But it's not just me my friends also get the same stick but they are alot stronger at dealing with it and I will bottle things up until I explode and it's not pretty site. Do you ever feel like the world is closing in on you because of some horrid comments you get from stuck up girls that if you cut off all their hair they would look like boys? Luckily I have friends but sometimes it gets too much. What should I do?
   
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Re: Girls that think they're better than everyone else - August 3rd 2009, 11:38 AM

I know how you feel because I've been in your position before. Just ignore it, as hard as it maybe just don't give them the satisfaction of upsetting you with their comments because that's what they want. If you don't let them get to you, they'll most likely get bored of it and stop doing it.
   
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Re: Girls that think they're better than everyone else - August 3rd 2009, 12:40 PM

Unfourtuantly those girls are pretty much in every school. And I really cant stand them. They think there better cuz their rich and popular stuff like that but their really not. Remember that whatever they say or do their still not better then you.

I would just ignore them the more you react the more they do. They start messing with you just walk off with your friends. You dont need to deal with them they can get over themselves.


   
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Wink Re: Girls that think they're better than everyone else - August 3rd 2009, 04:08 PM

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I know exactly what you mean (and who for that matter). I completely agree with what you guys have said. You need to ignore them if you don't know how to fight back. And in any case, you know I've always got your back in a fight.
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Re: Girls that think they're better than everyone else - August 3rd 2009, 04:51 PM

God, I hate those kind of girls! I totally sympathize. I am geeky and rubbish at most sports too. Girls like that tease me at school all the time. I think the best thing is to not let it bother you too much. I think most girls don't really like their boyfriends and just have them to improve their social status. Besides, while those girls are prancing around like idiots; you'll be getting studying and getting good marks and ultimately ending up more successful than them.
   
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Re: Girls that think they're better than everyone else - August 3rd 2009, 05:59 PM

Hey,

Yupp. Those kinda girls are DEAD annoying! I find either ignoring them, or using intelligence against them works...

They hate when you say something smarter than them....xD

Just thank mother nature your not one of those kinda girls eh??

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Re: Girls that think they're better than everyone else - August 5th 2009, 10:08 AM

Hey

The best thing to do,as everyone has mentioned , is to just ignore them! Girls like that are everywhere, and I do sympathise here- I know how uncomfortable it can make you feel! But, really the best thing to do is try and not let it get to you.
Have you thought about talking to your friends about it? It sounds like they know what your going through. The worst thing you can do is bottle up your feelings- as you mentioned it gets pretty messy sometime!

I'm going to close this now, as the advice is all pretty much the same. If you need anything, feel free to PM me =)

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