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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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problem in the same class - September 25th 2009, 11:31 PM

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its been happening for 3 days now and it isnt helping me stop cutting!!!! I sit next to this immature *bleep* who keeps calling me dory ( which is my pet peave) and insulting me and my scarves that i wear to hide the scars. Well its really 2 immature *bleep* im thinking about moving to another seat but ive had to dodge this guy for 3 years and i hate this. I dont really wnat to go to a teacher cuz then they'll make fun of me for being weak. im already stressed out about dealing with my cutting and pornography addiction andd telling the school councelor and starting school again that i really dont want this! what should i do? everytime i go to the class i dont wanna walk in because they trigger me even more ( the 2 immature *bleep and i just want to bolt from the school, hide and cut! what do i do?
   
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Re: problem in the same class - September 25th 2009, 11:46 PM

If I was in that situation I would go up to the teacher before or after class when you are the only one there. That way it is just one on one with the teacher and no one has to know you talked to her/him. Tell your teacher that these two are really bothering you and won't stop. Ask if she can please change your seat but kind of "undercover". If you don't know what I mean see if maybe she can change a couple of kids around so it's not just you singled out. That way, no one will know you wanted your seat changed and the two guys won't be able to get to you during that class.


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Re: problem in the same class - September 26th 2009, 09:53 PM

Talk to a teacher about it, they'll be able to sort it out.
They'll probably move him/you, or ask him not to talk to you.
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Re: problem in the same class - September 27th 2009, 06:31 PM

I hope he gets moved cuz i like my seat there. hes just an annoying a-hole!!!!!!
   
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Re: problem in the same class - September 27th 2009, 06:43 PM

Hey Dorothy

I'm sorry you have to deal with someone like this. It's never nice, and unfortunatly I think alot of people are in the same situation as you!
I think you should talk to your teacher. They're not going to think you're weak! The worst thing they can do is nothing; and even then there are other people you can talk to! Nobody should have to handle a situation like this, especially not on top of everything else you're going through. It's really not fair, and it needs to stop. You don't deserve to go through with this love.

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Re: problem in the same class - September 27th 2009, 08:36 PM

aww. thanks! i just think that the bullies will think im weak.hopefully everything will be resolved tomorrow!

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Re: problem in the same class - October 4th 2009, 12:25 PM

Ok so I got moved back bou he still taunts me everytime he turns around! What do I do? Also I'm in a scary situation (see thread in general health) and I need some courage and love so plz pm me hope filled messages! Plz... I'm so terrified about the situation. Thanks!

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Re: problem in the same class - October 6th 2009, 01:51 AM

Hey Dorothy,
Did you try talking to a teacher about him? Maybe if the teacher knew they would be more likely to look out for you and make sure the kid doesn't bother you as much. You should also see if there are school counselors in your school that can help you through both your situations.


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Re: problem in the same class - October 11th 2009, 11:46 PM

do you really need permission from your teacher to move seats? just move and if the teacher says anything to you then explain the situation.


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