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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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hmmm - January 23rd 2009, 02:05 PM

im not sure if this is the right forum to put this in or not..

erm.. i live with my sister as could cope with living alone
things are pretty difficult. she has a really bad temper she gets angry over nothing sometimes...

Last night i was going upstairs to bed and she followed me, she wouldnt let me close my room door, stood in the way of me closing it, and i like it closed so the cats dont get in. She started shouting at me for no reason, just for simply asking her to get out my room. She pinned me up against the wall by the throat, then started hitting me, she punched me in the face, kept pushing me around, calling me fat and things, at first i tried to push her off me but shes alot stronger than i am, i just stood there and said to her do what you want to do i dont care anymore.. she just kept hitting me.. then i got the courage to shout out that i was calling social work on her.. and i got a friend to, then social work called me... they said they would pass it on as this was 10pm or after..

I dont want to stay here no more, this isnt the first time its happened, i feel like shes pushing me over edge.. i just cant handle it no more..
im so scared.. im sitting n my room out of her way but its still no good what else can i do?
and i can honestly say that im not actually doing anything wrong.. im quiet, i sit and watch tv and on my laptop. i dont understand

i had enough

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Re: hmmm - January 24th 2009, 07:11 AM

I wouldn't sit there and take it, but i wouldn't recommend doing anything like i would........getting out of there is a good idea i think, personally id strike back, and strike hard lol, or just leave...
   
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Re: hmmm - January 24th 2009, 08:54 AM

i cant strike back though she is alot strong than i am
i just weak and a wimp
i should really just be used to it all i guess
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Re: hmmm - January 24th 2009, 01:42 PM

You're not a wimp, your being treated badly. I know you feel you can't stand up to your sister because she is stronger but have you tried talking? I know you can't talk easily to people face to face, but I think it would help. Maybe write her a note and explain that you feel awkward in your own home and that you need her as a sister to be there for you. Just explain how sad and lonely you feel. It might not work but hey, its worth a try! I'm here if you need me. I only wish I could help you more Mikki, you really deserve to be happy more than anyone. *hugs* x x x
   
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Re: hmmm - January 24th 2009, 09:13 PM

maybe you should tell an authority figure


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Re: hmmm - January 26th 2009, 11:41 AM

we have tried talking.. i said to her the other night that she really hurt me and hurt my face with punching me and she just laughed in my face and said i deserved it.
Theres nothing more i can do..

one of my councellors said that i should go to a womens refuge but i really dont want to cause donna will get rid of all my stuff and my cat.. so i guess i just need to wait until i get a different house.. dont know how long it will take though

maybe giving up is better

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