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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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why is she telling me all this? - November 3rd 2009, 08:02 PM

so whats going on is that this friend keeps on talking shit about her cousin and how shes gone out with like 8 guys and shes only like 15. she tells me about how her cousin is stupid and going down the wrong path in life. her cousin is (from what ive heard from her parents) a straight A student whose in a bunch of AP classes. she also keeps on talking shit about my other friend (whose also a straight A kid) for kissing a guy adn going out with him the night she met him.

all this makes me feel like absolute shit. i mean ive had sex, ive done drugs. i dont make the best decitions in life but i figure i should enjoy it and experiment every once in a while. i normally wouldnt care, but weve been friends for so long that it makes me kinda sad. her, her friends (whom ive been pretty close to since middle school) and i have managed to stay friends despite our different attitudes about things, but now im kinda scared i might get into a fight with her. i normally dont care about what people think but in this case i do just cause weve been friends for so long

so yeah what should i do?

ps. dont bother posting something being all like "listen to these girls cause theyre right". what i do is my choice and i dont pressure others into doing bad things so dont pressure me into not experimenting or being a goody good. i have my own limits and i know how to control myself. im not a kid.
   
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Re: why is she telling me all this? - November 3rd 2009, 11:38 PM

Just tell her you're not interested in what she is talking about



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