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I don't know what to do about him. - December 30th 2009, 12:20 AM

It was almost exactly a year ago when I started talking to Luke. He was my sister's best friends brother. He had just moved here, and was being home schooled, and he was my age. He saw a picture of me on my sisters phone, and bugged her for my number all night. She didn't give it to him, but he called her the next day and kept on asking, so I gave in. My mom wanted me to talk to him anyway's, because he seemed lonely.
And he was really nice. Very nice. We talked a lot, and he was a good listener. Then he started calling me way tooo much. I went to take a shower, and he had called my cell 11 times, my house phone 13 times, and my sisters cell 5 times. It had to stop, and he wanted a relationship, even though I just wanted to be friends. Then I found out why he moved here so suddenly. He had almost killed an 8 year old boy with a baseball bat for telling on him for smoking weed at school. And many other things. But he was only 14, so he was on probation. My mom was getting tired of this, and thought I should just stop talking to him. I did, and after 3 days of 34098 texts and calls, it settled down. Then 'Luke was here' appeared on the back of my mom's car. Then someone manually turned off our heat, the same night 'Luke was here' appeared. Then he started calling again. He calls from different numbers, blocked numbers, gets his sisters to call me, etc. It's ridiculous. Then he started my friends school and told everyone we were dating. I'd been ignoring him! Since then, he's now at my school. He talks trash about me and my family, starts rumors about us having sex, about me sending him pictures, and even tries to start shit with my boyfriend. My boyfriend has been with me through all of this, so he know's it's not true. Luke calls me ugly, worthless, a freak extra. He threaten to beat up all my guy friends, especially my boyfriend, and it's freaken' psycho. He's mean and hurtful. But never to me. Not to my face. He's never said anything bad to me. I avoid him, because he watches me. He called me three times last night and woke me up, then texted me being sweet, saying he hopes I feel better, and stuff. Then he admitted he still has a crush on me. And he wanted to know if I feel the same. Is he crazy? I made sure he knew I definitely do not. He never replied. I don't know what to do.


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Re: I don't know what to do about him. - December 30th 2009, 08:31 PM

Hey Mina,

I think that first of all, you need to talk with your mum. How much does she know about what's going on? Is she just aware of the fact he's not leaving you alone, or does she know about his past as well, and what he spreads around? Because if she doesn't know everything, you really need to tell her. For one thing, it's clear that ignoring him isn't solving the problem. If anything it sounds like it's fueling him more than keeping him away. And it doesn't sound like this is something you're going to be able to resolve on your own, you need to get an adult involved and your mum is probably the best person to talk to. It's so important not to leave anything out, no matter how irrelevant it might seem.

I think it would be a good idea to talk to the police as well, and report his actions, especially if he already has a record. Because honestly you have no idea how far he might take this, and I don't think it's a good idea to wait and find out. The police can keep him away from you, they can make sure you, your family, and your friends are safe.

In the meantime, continue to avoid him at all costs. Whatever you do, don't reply to his texts or phone calls. If you see him at all in school - if you share classes, lunch periods, see him in the hallways etc - talk to your school guidance counselor, explain the situation and see if they can help make sure you don't come in contact with him during the day. Another step you might want to consider is changing your cell number, your sister's cell number and possibly even your home phone number, and make sure he doesn't get the new numbers. This would ensure the calls and the texts stop.

Keep yourself safe, okay? Let me know if you want to talk about anything. Remember that you're not alone with any of this. Take good care of yourself. x



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