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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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I hate them! - January 4th 2010, 05:13 AM

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It's so stupid they're both so young but I can't bring myself to smile. I go on another forum and they managed to tell so many people that me and this other girl A don't get along. Well me and A have tried to work it out so many times and so many times we've come close... but then it just fails. Now they're doing everything to get at me, PMing me, IMing me everything just to tell me that it's sickening I care that they're putting me down so much. I get it! I fail at life! I'm a horrible person! Yeah I deserve to die! But god! And now they've followed me to this forum even though I quit the other one and blocked them to get them out of my hair. I hate my life. I hate it so much. I just want to end it. I've talked to a few people who know them and they've said that the two of them A and her friend and just bullies.. but I'm so sick of it. I can't do it anymore. I've tried everything to stop them but they're just so ... ugh always there. I hate them! I hate them and me and everything so much!



   
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Re: I hate them! - January 4th 2010, 05:32 AM

Hey, sorry this is happening to you. I know this is easier said than done, but honestly they WANT you to respond to these negative comments about you. DON'T give them that satisfactions. Put some songs on your MP3 player or computer (or even a CD or audio tape) that make you feel good about yourself and play them when you are feeling down. After you ignore them for a while, they'll probably stop because they will realize that they're wasting their time by bullying you.
   
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Re: I hate them! - January 5th 2010, 08:34 PM

Hey there. First off, sorry for what is happening. I know firsthand how such bullies are.
Here is some advice :

- Don't let them get to you. Go on with your life, keep talking and living but don't let then get to you and don't show them that they are getting to you. Neither should you let them tell you what to do.
- Stand your ground. If they are on this forum and are disturbing you, don't let then chase you away.
- If you and A just can't seem to make the friendship work, then leave it be. If it can then at the right time it will work out. But go on with your life and don't let such people bother you.
- If they keep contacting you, block them and remove them from your contact list.
- Don't be fragile. Be firm and control your life. If you want to stay a certain place and those guys are there, stay there and have fun. Don't run anymore. No more fear.
-Forget them and live your life

PS : All this will take time to build, so take it slow. If they manage to get to you at one time, ignore it clear the thoughts from your head and go on with your life. Life isn't about running but living and such people will always be there, so learn to stand your ground and don't let them push you around. Also don't respond with violence, don't fight them as it will only end bad. If they start gossiping then let them do it because you don't need their approval to live or love your life. Enjoy your life.
   
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