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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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Everyone calling me by my last name? - January 7th 2010, 09:08 PM

It's weird but these kids, about 6, have been calling me by my last name, which isn't weird in any way, just a plian arbic, last name. Well, they always call me by it and it annoys the hell out of me!!!! On countless ocasions I've told them to stop. Well I'm serousily getting pissed! I'm about just kick their asses, mainly one kid. so yeah, mainly I'm conserned about the one, he's like the head of a group of two others, who do the same, but much less. though I will fight him if I have to, I really don't want to. I'm not scared of him, no, but I'd rather not be suspened... again. So any clues what I can do? I'm not really one to do tell on ppl, in fact i'd never do that, probably fight first. So anyone got any ideas of what I could do? I'm serousily tired of this shit!


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Re: Everyone calling me by my last name? - January 7th 2010, 09:17 PM

Ooo, something similar used to happen to me too, except they called me by my first and last name. It is extremely annoying =/ In the end though the best thing you can do is ignore them, then they get bored and leave you alone. I mean, think about it, they're calling you it for your reaction, so if you don't react to it then they'll get bored of it and leave you alone. Starting a fight with them will only make things worse, as this is the 'best' reaction they can get from you, and even if you really hurt them they'd still call you it out of spite. Plus you'd get in trouble with all the teachers.

But it is extremely annoying, some people just need to act their age =/
   
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Re: Everyone calling me by my last name? - January 7th 2010, 09:27 PM

I think the best thing you can do is to simply ignore these kids. It doesn't sound like they're trying to offend you so much as they are trying to annoy you. If you show them that you could honestly care less what they call you, chances are they will stop doing it. They can't bug you for forever, after all, and if they don't get arise out of you they'll get bored and move on. Try not to let it bug you so much either, they're just annoying kids who are barely worth your concern.





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Re: Everyone calling me by my last name? - January 7th 2010, 09:38 PM

Thanks, yeah. Fine enough.


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Re: Everyone calling me by my last name? - January 7th 2010, 09:40 PM

Just ignore them that's the best thing to do.
   
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Re: Everyone calling me by my last name? - January 7th 2010, 11:13 PM

If you keep reacting they will carry on bevcause they no that they are winning and hurting your feelings. If you ignore them it pisses them off quite frankly and eventually they will give up because they will get bored of not getting a reaction out of you.
   
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Re: Everyone calling me by my last name? - January 8th 2010, 04:18 PM

Heyy.
I know how annoying this can be! Especially when you know people are doing it to purely annoy you, and there's not much you can do in return.
Honestly, as hard as it is, the best thing to do is just ignore them as if they see it's making you angry/upset they're most likely to just carry on donig it!
Keep your head held high, and walk away. Know that you are a better person then they are!

I hope everything gets better for you, and I'm going to close this now, just to avoid repetition. If you want it re-opened, or need anything else, just PM me!

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