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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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Unhappy Bullying - February 12th 2010, 01:18 AM

I get bullied everyday. The people that bully me are supposed to be my friends!! They think its funny. They call me mean names like they say that I am stupid, a loser, ugly and they say that no one would ever be my friend and now I am left with no one. I am scared of them because they told me that they will hurt me if I tell someone what there doing. They also keep pushing me aroud like they push me into walls. Them doing these things is making me want to hurt myself.


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Re: Bullying - February 12th 2010, 01:55 AM

If this is happening at school you should tell the administration. By law if a teacher/administrator knows about a bullying, abuse, etc. happening to a student they have to help or they can be severely punished. If it is out of school talk to your parents and learn some self defense for if they do try to harm you. I recommend Krav Maga or Taekwondo.


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Re: Bullying - February 12th 2010, 01:58 AM

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If this is happening at school you should tell the administration. By law if a teacher/administrator knows about a bullying, abuse, etc. happening to a student they have to help or they can be severely punished. If it is out of school talk to your parents and learn some self defense for if they do try to harm you. I recommend Krav Maga or Taekwondo.
Tell the admin is a good idea. The martial arts, not so much. The laws for self defense are very complicated. If you actually did hurt them, you'd be the one in trouble depending on the mitigating circumstances and how severely you defended yourself.

Just tell the administration because, Guile is right, they are required to do something.


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Re: Bullying - February 12th 2010, 02:59 AM

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Tell the admin is a good idea. The martial arts, not so much. The laws for self defense are very complicated. If you actually did hurt them, you'd be the one in trouble depending on the mitigating circumstances and how severely you defended yourself.

Just tell the administration because, Guile is right, they are required to do something.
Legally you can only use as much force they are using, unless they are in your home and you have "make my day laws". I doubt that though so I can in short say if they are hitting with fists you can't pick up a bat, etc. I truly do recommend self defense because I would prefer a few detentions or such then a broken arm and a concussion, etc.


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Re: Bullying - February 12th 2010, 05:17 AM

I know this is supose to be female advice preffered. But I'm not leaving anyone out in the cold.

Ok i know they said they would hurt you if you reported them... but think for a moment, why would they threaten you not to? Cause they don't want you to thats why! There scared of it.

step 1: report there actions
step 2: keep in range of a teacher just incase
step 3: Go looking for someone who might wana be your friend.
step 4: if they bully you again then report them again.

Also while your walking around, keep you head high and your back straight. Make sure it looks like your going somewhere and no one is gunna stop you. Look intimidating!


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