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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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Why Can't They Get It? Am I In The Wrong? - February 24th 2010, 05:07 PM

Okay So Basically I've Been Bullied All Through School From 4 Years Old To Now.
I Was Always Told If I Didn't See Who It Was Then They Couldn't Do Much. Fair Doos. I Get It.
So I Moved To This New School And I Still Get Stuff Said/ Done In the Corridors But Nothing Happens In Lessons Or When I Hang Out With My Friends In The Library.
For The First Time I Can Honestly Say It Really Doesn't Bother Me. But No One Seems To Get That. Everyone Keeps Having A Go Saying I Need To Do More. It Doesn't Bother Me, It Doesn't Happen Often And To Be Honest I Think Telling Would Make It Worse.
So Am I In The Wrong? Should I Do Something?


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Re: Why Can't They Get It? Am I In The Wrong? - February 25th 2010, 05:16 AM

In the wrong for what? Bullies are always the ones in the wrong.
OK theres a certain way you can react to this. Bullies want sad emotions out of you.
So give them the complete opposite, happy emotions. such as:
"And? so what?"
"what, you think i care?"
"thats what you think"
always give them happy reactions with a smile on your face and look them in the eyes. Laugh as much as you can, And make sure everyone knows your proud of yourself.
Then they should stop.

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Re: Why Can't They Get It? Am I In The Wrong? - February 27th 2010, 07:43 PM

Its upto you. If it doesn't bother then forget it and go on with your life. But don't forget it and go on with your life because you are afraid. Let not fear be the reason. But if things get bad then go and tell and don't be afraid.

I came here to help out, so if you wanna talk or just need someone to bounce ideas or issues off of or something else then send me a message and I will reply as soon as I can.
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Re: Why Can't They Get It? Am I In The Wrong? - February 28th 2010, 04:32 AM

If it doesnt bother you, then its okay to move on.
Just make sure you are masking any hidden feelings
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Re: Why Can't They Get It? Am I In The Wrong? - March 5th 2010, 09:29 PM

If you can sincerely say you don't give a damn, then that's amazing and very good for you. I envy you.
There are pure jerks that will just target people for no real reason, or go for anyone if there's an opportunity. This sounds like the kind of guys you're dealing with, which is a lot better than specific targeting. So good for you again. See if you can explain this to the people that have a go at you, and remember that you're definitely not in the wrong. However, I do recommend watching out for other people these people may be targeting. See if you can help out there.
If it does bother you, and you don't foresee that stopping any time soon, then act, without a doubt. Though you've given the impression this isn't the case, I thought I'd include it anyways.
PM me if you need to.
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