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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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Arrow I learnt a valuable lesson today - April 29th 2010, 07:13 AM

Athletics carnival
lots of bullies
mixed with other people
in one group
me
alone

Thats a good summary of the scene... so we were doing long jump i was standing with a whole bunch of people out in the open... that was my flaw.

there was a group of bullies as well and they were all scattered around... I'm used to being backed against a wall where i can make eye contact with everyone bully.

However this time i was out in the the open... one bastard (which from earlier investigations is the most vulnerable bully to eye contact i've ever seen) got round behind me... and pulled my trowsers down. -.- bastards ganged up on me... curses if only i had more eyes.... or at least a good wall.

I felt nervous for a bit and reactated quickly, i slowly pulled my trowsers back up and said aloud: "I guess you've just realised i don't have a belt" I really felt the need to hit someone but I calmed myself knowing that would make it worst.

I almost got bullied for the rest of the day because their lucky shot brought their confidence way up and kept hanging around me, touching a toying with me. Though of course I was thinking: GRRAAAA THERES NO WAY I'M BEING BEATEN THIS EASILY, so after a few seconds i reported them to the nearest responsible teacher.
They tried again.... so i reported them again RIGHT INFRONT OF THEIR EYES!....heheh they stopped after that. Me: 143 bullies: 0

I almost ALMOST went into a state of deppression for the rest of the day, But I started fighting it back in my mind. HA HAHA I knew it all along! i'm so sexy even bullies can't ressist taking off my clothes!!! ^^ Ha ha, just as i thought: I'm still as mentally invincible as always!

Though i've learnt a valuable lesson, Never ever get surrounded. That was what started this. bahaaha. still... although my ego took a massive beating today. *smirks* yet again... . I finished it!!!!

That was close though, i almost got all sad... Then i would have lost my mentally invincible title ^^

-Vheir


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Re: I learnt a valuable lesson today - April 30th 2010, 06:53 PM

I'm sorry you were bullied, but I like the way you "got" them.

I find your post inspirational. And made me laugh with the line "....i'm so sexy even bullies can't ressist taking off my clothes!!! ^^ ..."

Thanks !

I hope they will leave you alone now. You are "mentally invincible "




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Re: I learnt a valuable lesson today - May 2nd 2010, 07:20 AM

i can imagine the bullies' faces when you reported them to the teacher right in front of them!

good luck, and always maintain your positive outlook!
   
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Re: I learnt a valuable lesson today - May 2nd 2010, 08:37 AM

That was such a smart (and funny) thing to do. You, not them. What they did to you was horrible, but you got them back in a sensible way. Good on you.


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Re: I learnt a valuable lesson today - May 2nd 2010, 01:12 PM

Haha, I wasn't expecting such positive posts ^^ well that made my day! I'm glad you found it inspirational, perhaps i shall re tell more bully stories like this.

I was kinda sad the day when it happened, rather embarressing, so i just put music in my ears and started laughing at the situation, and even congratulating myself for working out what i did wrong. ^^ thanks people..

I knew i could never take on a bully in a fight, so i stick to the psychology of anti-bullying
Confident body language = ownage

Ha ha ha, why am i gloating after being bullied............ HA HA who cares? its fun anyway!!!

Thanks for the support -BPS


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