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Okay so i got out from my apartment and went down the stairs out, I called my 2 friends to skateboard with.Okay so we were skateboarding doing flips,grinds,ollies and stuff.Then a group of 4 immigrants came and started calling us ''Ya gay swedes'' this is a huge problem in Sweden.Anyways we talked shit back then a guy took my skateboard threw it on the ground at a rainpool i got angry really angry. I took it up attacked them all.I beat up 4 persons with another friend, My other friend was a chicken but i dont mind it
but wow...Now in school they don't even say ''Hi'' they don't even look at me sideways..This is how u stop bullies i guess but it wont help always cuz they would come with more people..My question is, What i did is it wrong to attack them?
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Re: Bullies attacked me i attacked back -
May 5th 2010, 06:48 AM
I was bullied so much in school and even outside of school I still sometimes am by the older crowd, and I only ever once thought back physically and that was when I was like 9 and thought fighting was the answer to everything. Sure, it helped, for a couple of weeks and of course it started back up again and there's no use in telling where I live because they didn't do didlly squat. Was fighting the best thing for you to do? Honestly, I think not because it might come back later and bite you in the ass. Fighting never solves anything in the long run, is what I'm trying to say.
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Stupidity Kills
Outside, huh?
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Re: Bullies attacked me i attacked back -
May 5th 2010, 08:16 AM
Fighting was not the best thing you could have done as there can be legal consequences if the 4 kids and their parents choose to act on it. That aside, the fighting could bring no overt tension between you and the others for a brief time but it may lead to them returning the favour and attacking you. It may also lead to other immigrants joining in because it would be rather simple and common for the reason you attacked to be distorted to that of you being racist and a bigot towards the race of the immigrants.
If the consequences of your fighting come back in a brief time to return the favour or similar damage, I would not be surprised. |
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Re: Bullies attacked me i attacked back -
May 5th 2010, 09:14 AM
I think attacking them is good. Some people just don't learn till you make them get the point.
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Re: Bullies attacked me i attacked back -
May 5th 2010, 09:52 AM
You see them daily at school right? If they were gona hit back it's likely they would have done it already, although they might just be bitter. 2 of you on 4 of them. That made a strong point... u could take any of them on ur own with 1 arm lol. Or they might just be waiting untill u think it's died down then hit when u dont expect it. If somethin doesnt happen within a month... then its probably blown over and "forgotten" about.
lol I would have done even worse. I would have made them eat the dirt and turf off the earth. M******ing jerks. And its not a racial issue on ur part as I see it. It is on THEIRS... they come to your country and start insulting you for being a Swede. Thats like you invite someone to your house and then they start takin the piss out of u in front of ur own friends or trashing your living room. Sry if Im extreme on this... but racists is somethin that gives my blood spazms. If you've got some spare time, read this:
http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f40-s...-d/#post631229 But don't if you're easily triggered. If you're not easily triggered then go ahead. ![]() |
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Re: Bullies attacked me i attacked back -
May 5th 2010, 10:57 AM
Well i've seen in a lot of bullying cases that (and i hate to admit it) after a bullies be treated beat up by someone they thought they were going to bully, they stop bullying all together. So yes its true, it can be the right thing to do.
However! Its a really really bad idea to try, Half the time you either don't hurt them and get even more bullied, or you beat them up, and they come back with more people... It depends on the person Next time i would suggest searching for other ways to make them back off Violence is a last resort. ![]() |
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