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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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why is it - August 11th 2010, 05:53 PM

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why is it that where ever i go i get bullied, i went on holiday and some people on the ship kept bullying me, i go college i get bullied i go out i get bullied. im convinced im doing something wrong, i must be i constantly get bullied no matter where i go. it feels as though i have a sign tattoed across my forehead that i cant see that says ' please feel free to insult / bully as much as possible'.



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Re: why is it - August 11th 2010, 06:08 PM

I'm sorry this happens to you Lydia. You don't deserve to be bullied

Don't ever blame yourself for it, you're a great person and one of the first friends I made on this site. Just ignore them, I know it's hard but you're better than them so just concentrate on yourself and let them get on it with it. I'm here for you if you ever need to talk about anything.


   
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Re: why is it - August 11th 2010, 06:17 PM

Oh Lyd

I've seen photos of you on facebook,you don't look bullyable You look gorgeous.

All I can say is hold your head high, smile and pretend you're okay. Because you are okay, and you know you're always coming home to TH <3

There will always be people who feel like giving someone a snidy look. I've done it before when I was having a bad day. Its not aimed at you, its just that person needs an outlet. Its not an excuse but I guess its a kid of explanation?



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Re: why is it - August 11th 2010, 06:22 PM

I can understand how you feel. ): I know that must be tough.

It's not fair that you're being bullied so much, and I know it must make you feel extremely insecure and unsure about yourself. But try to remain confident in who you are. Bullies tend to pick on people who they feel they'll be able to hurt; people who aren't very confident in themselves. Even if you're not confident, act it. Hold your head high, and don't let anyone else see that you doubt yourself or are unsure about who you are. If you act confident, there's a good chance people might not bother you as much as they do.





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Re: why is it - August 11th 2010, 08:37 PM

It's not fair that your being bullied, and, to be honest with you, I'm going through the same thing. You see, I live in a town where people look at you funny when you walk by as if the sidewalk is their's and that you walking on it is supposed to be some sort of insult to them. It's stupid, really. The key trait to have in order to ward off bullies is confidence. Hold your head high and act fearless even if you don't really feel it. This will show your bullies that you are no longer phased by their immaturity.


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Re: why is it - August 12th 2010, 05:56 PM

I know how you feel, Im not bullied so much anymore but alot of people "dislike" me and honestly dont know why, I think it might be in the way I behave but I try my hardest to be kind and nice to everyone I meet.
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Re: why is it - August 16th 2010, 04:11 AM

I know how you feel. It's horrible to be bullied and no deserves it, but it happens anyway. Just try to remind yourself that they are NOT better than you.
   
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Re: why is it - August 16th 2010, 10:27 AM

the only place i feel safe is on this site. i know that when i come here im safe from the bullies. its getting to the point where on the days when i have college i find it incredibly hard to go to college my mum has a battle with me in the mornings to get me to go to college, i often tell my mum im not going i dont want to go. problem is i cannot telll my mum that im being bullied at college, i feel so pathetic im 20 and being bullied by people in my class who are younger than me, i cant even stand up to them. the people in my college class even say to each other when im sat near them 'she does bring it upon herself that we pick on her'. i cant help it im just different.



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