Don't know what to do

[Alex xox]

this is a short version of whats got has going since the term started and i need to know if you think i should tell someone cause one of my friends does but the other doesn't

so I've never been popular but I've always got on with most kids in my year but recently one girl has been posting on other friends facebook walls about me calling me a rude bitch and the such like and then she got about ten people in my science class to start making fun outa me and in the end after numerous lessons like this and in two other subjects I stood up and walked out in tears because i just couldn't take it anymore i found out later my two closest frineds had stayed in the class laughing at it and the other friend that did come after me but posted about how she was afraid for her safety and only wanted to get out of the lesson.

so know i'm the laughing stcok of the year and i just don't know what to do. any advice and i would be grateful

[Opal]

I don't really know why that happened without more details but if it's already gotten that bad I think you should ask your parents if you can switch schools. Rather than ask them outright try and list advantages and point out your problem.

[Alex xox]

Originally Posted by Opal

I don't really know why that happened without more details but if it's already gotten that bad I think you should ask your parents if you can switch schools. Rather than ask them outright try and list advantages and point out your problem.

yeah thanks its just that they wont there isnt a decent school anywhere near me and i'm in my last year there which means they double wont because they'll just think i'm over exagerating

[Illuminate]

heyy

So it sucks when friends do this. Unfortunately I think at our age 14/15 girls tend to become really bitchy. My friends and I have been on and off for a few months and mean things get said. I think just gritting your teeth to try and get through it would be the best advice

However it looks like it's upsetting you a greatdeal so maybe talking to your parents would be a good start. They might be able to have a word with your 'friends' parents

keep strong <3

[Opal]

Okay. Well if it's your last year of school focus on that, because it's comforting to know that it's a year and not five years.

Also, remember the rule for dealing with bullies is to never do what they expect you to do, so if they expect you to be sad then laugh instead and act happy. And don't forget, if they call you a rude bitch then they are a rude bitch for calling you a bitch, so you can always use a line like that if things get very tough.

You're going to have to remember that bullies crave power and any sign of sadness will be interpreted as a sign of weakness. It's nuts, but there you go.

[Angeal]

I think you should tell your principal. And also I've been in your situation, where I've walked out of a classroom crying, and been laughed at it for it. In most cases(like mine)What don't kill you makes you stronger. If you want a non violent way to make them mad, this is what you do, every time they say something about you, or post something on facebook about you, reply with thank you for the compliment, and do it with a smile on your face. Don't act like it fazes you at all. Act tough and stand your ground, because soon enough they'll get tired of it and stop. Once they see that there words and such don't affect you they'll move on.