they're stopping me from seeing my friends..

[doomcookie]

this is probably gonna make very little sense to most of you, but I'll try..
theres this big park in the city centre in my city, outside the shopping centre and facing the docs.. and it's kind of like a big social scene for teens, alot of people go and hang out there on the weekends and after school, and I've made so many friends there and had a blast in like April-June.

Anyway, I stopped going because there was a big argument and I fell out with a lot of my close friends that hang round there, so I stopped going. Now, I've made up with most of them and I want to start hanging round there again, but this girl is the only thing standing in my way.

She hates me for no reason, basically. It started in April and she started on me via Facebook for no reason, I stuck up for myself, then she got her sister to threaten me with a gang, and my mum rang the police and it all stopped, but she carried on glaring at me and sniggering, and whispering things to people as I walked past.. which didn't bother me in the slightest.

I've tried to tell myself that if I put up with it then, I can put up with it now, but I've fallen out with a friend of hers that is also a friend of mine, (I'm not gonna go into *that* argument but trust me, it's bad & making up with her is out of the question..) and they both really, really hate me now. They're both really popular and I have a feeling that if I go back, things are going to be worse and they're going to turn people against me.. I don't know what I should do.

[Boobies]

I think you should just go anyway, by the sounds of it it's her problem so if she doesn't like you she can either cope with it, or not go. You should not feel as if you shouldn't be there, you have as much right to be there as she does.

And she can't turn everyone against you, just go with some of your own friends then you'll definitely have someone to talk to.

You could try just turning up, and you feel uncomfortable you can leave, but don't just stop going all together. Try and go when she isn't there.

[Illuminate]

like Keady said, I think you should go back! Don't let someone like that hold you back!
She obviously knows how much this is upsetting you and that is why she carries on.

Smile at her when you see her. It will just prove you are the bigger person. Then act as if she isn't there.
Surround yourself with people you haven't seen in a while
and get into a good conversation. If she does start whispering or throwing you dirty looks, just brush them off and act as if there is a brick wall between you and her

hope this helps <3