Webcam pressure.

[lost_soul]

So, one of my guy friends did webbie with me and he masturbated while I was watching his cam. Now he wants me to 'repay' him and show him my boobs on webbie. I don't want to do it in case it gets out or he takes a pic and shows people, I don't really trust him. But, he keeps bugging me, and I kinda told him I would do it just to shut him up. He's very persistent and I don't know if i should just do it to make him shut up, or try to avoid it and have him keep annoying me.

Advice?

Thanks so much <3

[Saphire]

DON'T do anything you're not confortable with. If you don't want to show your boobs, don't. Simple.

I think your idea of avoiding him is the best idea, as he doesn't seem like a trustworthy person that you should be surrounding yourself with.

[CrimsonTippedPetals]

If he is pressuring you with it, block him completely, because you have the right not to show something. You shouldn't have to 'return the favor'. He obviously isn't worth it either if he is asking over and over. I've had this problem before, and made the wrong choice, and ended up not talking to the guy anyway. Some guys don't care about the other girls feelings, and just want a free show.

It's safer to end it.

[OMFG!You'reActuallySmart!]

There's no need to "repay" him this way if you don't want to. If he keeps persisting, tell him to go look at Playboy as he has plenty of access to boobs online. The very fact he's begging to see yours and you not trusting him make it perfectly reasonable not to show him.

[taylalatbh.]

If you don't want to do it (which you obviously don't, which is why you posted here) then don't do it! You should never do anything that you don't want to do, and that you're not comfortable with.

You shouldn't feel like you have to repay him. He chose to masturbate on webcam to you, you didn't force him. And you in no way have to repay him by doing anything.

I know it's hard to get passed the fact that you're being pressured. But you just need to stick up for yourself and not give in to it. You don't have to do it. And there's always the chance that he could video or take a photo of you naked and there could end up anywhere on the internet.

If you don't want to do it, don't do it.

[Kanye West]

I agree with the previous posters.

You shouldn't have to do something you don't feel comfortable doing, especially if it's something over the internet, where anything goes.

Even if you had told him that you going to, there's no reason that you feel you have to go through with it. There's no reason to feel pressure or guilt.

On a sidenote: I don't think it's something you should be doing whether you trust the person or not because circumstances can always change between people.

[Illuminate]

Like everybody has said, do NOT do anything you feel uncomfortable with..
You will just feel awful about it.. And he may use it as an excuse for you to do it in future..

Is there anyway you could just block him for a few days untill his male 'urges' have calmed down?
Or you could flat out tell him how it makes you feel..

Hope this helps xxx

[LucyLouWho]

If there's even a tiny part of you that thinks that you shouldn't do it, don't.

[Nostalgia]

dont, just dont , just block him, report him, delte him.

[.Brittany.]

Don't do it, it is so easy to 'screenshot' the cam, and then he can put it online for everyone to see.. Don't do what you don't want to do. I would tell him that you don't feel comfortable with it, and he will have to deal with that. If he keeps bugging you then block him.

[lost_soul]

Thanks so much guys, every single one of you has made me realise that I don't need to do anything I don't want to do, and no matter what he says or does, I don't have to. Thank you for all of the words of advice, I now know that I'm better than that and that I really don't have to give into this pressure

I told him how I felt, and although he seems a bit annoyed, he's stopped pestering me so much and I don't feel the need to block him, which is good.

Thank you all
<3

[.Brittany.]

I'm glad that things worked out in the end Amy

[Illuminate]

I am happy things went well for you and you had the courage to tell him how you felt

Since you have the help you need Ima go ahead and close the thread