This boy beat me up

[dontunderstand]

I was sitting round the back of the school at lunch time like I normally do, I like being on my own, when this boy he was about 2 years above me, he just started hitting me and kicking me. He never did it near my face it was always at my stomach and legs. I tried screaming and getting help, but no one came. He pulled me to the back of the building where the old toilets are and opened one of the doors, I was made to get in along with him. He then made me sit in the corner for the rest of lunch time while he just watched me. If I moved he would scream at me or hit me. I'm scared, I don't want to go to school tomorrow, but I know my brother won't let me stay off. Help!!! He said if I tell anyone he would go after my little sister...

[nolovejustlies]

You need to tell someone, if you tell someone they can sort it for you and you won't have to be scared, you need to think about yourself and your own safety...

[i_know_the_dark_side]

She's obviously worried about her little sister, she should tell someone because it will keep HER safe AND HER LITTLE SISTER. She is obviously more scared for her little sister. If you tell someone you will be protecting your little sister... Pm me if you need anything...

[Sea Monkey]

Hi Bekii,
I'm very sorry to hear that this has happened to you, it really needs to get sorted. Before the bullying escalates any further, you would need to tell somebody about what has happened. A teacher will be able to sort this out; especially if you mention you do not want to go to school anymore. Please also let them know about what has been said regarding your younger sister, as she could be a potential victim too.

If you do not feel able to tell a teacher, please tell your parent(s) to sort it, or report it to the police. The police would definately have the authority to sort this out.

If you need anything, you are always welcome to PM me anytime.
Take Care. <3

[Cosmo]

Hi Bekii.
First of all: Tell a teacher. It can be anyone, if they know you're being bullied they're obliged to do something about it! Describe to them exactly what happened, and hopefully this will be sorted.
As mentioned above, worst case scenario, report it to the police as common assault. See how juvenile prison affects his outlook on life.

[dontunderstand]

I have told the head master before this, but he aint done anything, he says I should sort them out myself.

[Sea Monkey]

Bekii

I'm very sorry to hear that your head master isn't sorting this out for you. The next action I am going to suggest you take is taking this incident to the police. Tell them everything that has happened. They will be stopped if you take this action.

Take care.

[dontunderstand]

What if the police don't believe me and the boy goes after Ruby, I don't want him hurting my little sister.

[Cosmo]

Originally Posted by dontunderstand

I have told the head master before this, but he aint done anything, he says I should sort them out myself.

Him saying that is illegal. Make him aware of that fact. If he still refuses, then you should go to the police, definitely. They're obligated to help.

Originally Posted by dontunderstand

What if the police don't believe me and the boy goes after Ruby, I don't want him hurting my little sister.

The police will investigate. If your bully picks on anybody else, ask those victims to testify that they ware bullied by this person, should make the story even more believable. Also, while we're not really allowed to advocate violence, if he goes after your sister, find a way to physically stop him. Or, better still, ask a male friend or acquaintance to come with you. I don't quite know why he would go after her though. Bullies don't sort of go for family members, they just go for people who they think are weak.

[dontunderstand]

its only me

[dontunderstand]

he never picks on anybody else its only me

[Cosmo]

Talk to the headmaster again, let him know that if he doesn't do something about it, you'll be letting the police know that they're breaking the law. You don't even have to follow through, just bluff it, although seeing as it is illegal you could do it.

[Crimson_Craze]

First of all calm down, you need to stay calm, tell someone you trust, your mum, your brother, a teacher. Tell them exactly what he done to you, include the date and time, if they don't believe you go to the police, write everything down in a journal and tell them exactly what happened. If you ever need anything I'm just a PM away Good luck and best wishes.

[OMFG!You'reActuallySmart!]

First, tell your parents/guardians about the incidents, show them the marks on your body, tell them the threats the boy made and your fears. Be sure to tell them you already spoke to the head-master and he refused to help. Second, talk to the head-master again, ideally with one of your parents/guardians as they are often more willing to listen at that point. Telling a teacher would be useless because they probably would tell you to see the head-master anyway. Third, regardless of the head-master's reaction to telling him again, tell the head-master you're going to bring this to the police and do so. Mentioning that will get the head-master looking into it if bringing in the parents doesn't because the consequences for him are much more severe. When you tell the police, be sure to tell them your head-master refused to help. Having the parent/guardian for this is beneficial because it backs up your statement as a witness. Again, show them the marks on your body and if you need to seek any medical treatment, do so and get a copy of all the doctor's notes on the incident to bring to the police. Be sure to tell the police the threats he made because it shows more than one person is at risk of being attacked by him.

If your story is true and if this happened only once, it is NOT bullying, however, it is assault. I would also buy some pepper spray and even stun gun (if legally allowed) so you can defend yourself and others.

[Ebunny96]

My first suggestion is do not be afraid of the boy. Also, please know you are not target or valuareable. Remember the song written in stars you just gotta keep screaming till the hear you out.( Just don't hurt yourself in any way.)

[BDF]

You say you live in London... Surrey, for some reason I'm not surprised this kind of shit goes on. That doesn't make it any better. You said teachers do nothing. Go to the police, tell them everything, including that he threatened your little sister. They have to deal with this very seriously.

Do you have a mobile phone? Next time he attacks you, turn the voice recording on, leave it in your pocket, and play it to the police, so they know you're not "making it up for attention".

And FORGET the headmaster. Tell the police he didn't listen. He doesn't sound like a reliable person at all. Don't give him a second chance, because even if he does something I doubt it'l be anything much... and this kid will still be around and most definitely then WILL go after you again for revenge (I'm being realistic).

Also, do you have any relatives. Older brother? Your older brother should have friends. I'm sure they can put the fking scare in him like he saw the ghost of God. I really feel like saying this though, I myself hate those kind of people/kids. I mean really, there isn't much else that provokes me more. I wish I lived closer to where you do, I'd genuinely love to deal with him myself, eye for eye, and his little fucking chav gang that he's probably part of, that would automatically jump to his defence wielding butter knifes.

Apart from that, I hope you really manage to sort this out. Tell your parents and police, no one else in case they go talking about it everywhere and he attacks your little sister. Do the voice recording thing, play it to the police. If you don't have a mobile phone, maybe you can even borrow a friend's? But seriously, 2nd hand mobile phones with recording abilities can cost as little as £15 by now. Also look into stuff like pepper sprays, scream alarms, maybe even a stun gun although I'm not sure if it's legal, I doubt it. In fact even pepper sprays aren't legal I think, but you can still buy them pretty easily. Stun guns not so easy. I also heard there are really strong flash lights you can buy, that disorientate the attacker. I've never seen one though.

Keep us posted on how this goes. I wana hear from you when finally this kid gets kicked out of school and thrown in a cell, or even better have the living shit scared out of him by an older brother or friend of yours.